When a person falls in love, he does not make an informed choice. He literally turns off the mind, and goes at the behest of the heart. He turns a blind eye to the shortcomings, even considering them to be advantages and characteristics. He sees absolutely nothing wrong with the behavior, words and actions of the second half. And often he does not see that there is no relationship, that absolutely nothing will come of them. He believes in one thing, that love will overcome any quarrels, omissions and misunderstandings. But this is not a movie where everything is written strictly according to the script. In life, everything is completely different, and sometimes you need to make up your mind and stop wasting time.
There are signs that tell you that your relationship is pointless to continue.
You and your partner have different priorities.
For a relationship to be correct, real and fulfilling, partners must have the same priorities and outlook on life. Sometimes they say about two lovers that they met at the wrong time. One still wants to take a walk, live for himself, enjoy freedom and entertainment. And the other wants a family, children, stability. One wants to travel, have fun, while the other is fixated on work and building a career. If you and your partner have different priorities and completely different plans for the future and goals, then you are unlikely to succeed.
You and your partner have a different worldview
It is very difficult to communicate with a person who has completely different views. And to build relationships, to live under one roof - even more so. You may of course have different preferences in food and music, but when you look at life differently, this is already a problem. This will greatly interfere with your communication, will interfere with building plans for the future, raising your children, as well as mutual understanding. There are many examples, but the truth is the same - people with different outlooks on life will not be able to be in a relationship for a long time.
You Can't Find a Compromise in Disputes
It is impossible to build a normal relationship if the two halves cannot find compromises on certain issues. It is clear that two completely different people, even if they have a lot in common, will not be able to agree with each other in everything. Therefore, in normal relations, people try to make concessions to each other, sometimes they are silent where they want to flare up and prove their case. You need to look for a middle ground in disputes. It is the discussion of the situation and the search for a compromise that helps two hearts to understand and get to know each other much better.
You feel like you are missing something
It feels like you are in the wrong place. You seem to love the person, respect him, and all this is mutual, but you still lack something. You know, when you are with the one with whom you need to, then you just feel calm, and nothing else is needed. You enjoy each other's company, communicate, you are interested in together. But, if you are uneasy, something gnaws at you, something haunts you, then this is a very bad sign. If you sit together and are silent, and this makes you uncomfortable, if, being together, each of you is busy with his own business, this is bad. Over time, this will torment you more and more.
You are not looking forward to your meeting
If you don't really wait for your partner to come, come from work, etc., then this means that you do not want to spend as much time with him as possible. This is also a very bad sign. You are bored with him, uninteresting, there is nothing to talk about. Wait, you seem to have a whole life ahead of you, and you don't want to spend most of your time with him now? What will happen next?
There is no need to torture yourself or your partner. Do not be afraid of parting, it is sometimes not as painful as the time together, when you harass each other with different views on life, silence and scandals.
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