You are in a relationship, and you are just sure that you love the person, but there is some feeling that something is wrong with you. You just didn't think about it strongly and seriously, and went with the flow. And then we came across this article. I am not writing a gag, but the opinion of experts in the field of building relationships. So, there are signs that will tell you for sure that you are not in love with a person, although you think the opposite.
Signs that you dislike your partner
You are indifferent to all his experiences.
At the beginning of the relationship, you worried about him, and now you suddenly don't care what happens there in his life, whether everything is good or everything is bad. This is a bell, dear women!
He distracts you from business.
Previously, you could talk excitedly for hours, but now, you are not interested in what he tells you. Instead, you realize that he is distracting you with his chatter. You seem to get bored with him.
You don't see a future with him
Look, it seems to you that you love a person, you constantly think about him, but now you cannot see your joint future in any way. You cannot imagine you together. This is a very bad sign. You can be in a relationship for a very long time, but you still haven't decided what exactly you want from them. A loving person plans a joint future, dreams, sets goals. You are not.
You feel much better on your own than with him
It seems that before it was interesting and fun for you together, but now you suddenly realized that you are much better off alone. It's easier for you, you feel happier and freer without him. And you are not even ashamed of it.
You may not call or write to him for several days
For example, when he is away, you do not even want to find out how he is doing, to hear his voice, to ask him something. When you are together, just all day at work, then you can be silent, not call or write, but not because you are both busy, but because you don't care. Now, if a man behaved like that, then some of your girlfriend would certainly advise you to part with him. You don't have to be together 24/7 and chat on the phone incessantly, but if you feel good for a long time without talking to him, then this is a pretty bad sign.
You do not share your most intimate with him.
You do not listen to him, and you yourself do not tell anything about your affairs. Everything, you have already formed your own world, and there is no your partner in it.
You don't want to introduce him to your loved ones
You have been together for a long time, but you have not introduced him to your loved ones. Why? Just do not say that you do not have time for this. When a person is in love, he wants to tell everyone about his choice. If this does not happen, then you are definitely not sure of him, or of yourself. Or maybe you are ashamed of him?
You are restless next to him
With a loved one together calmly, comfortably, well. But, if you do not experience special calmness and joy from spending time together, what is the meaning of your relationship? You are always in some kind of tension, something is disturbing you, you cannot relax at all. The sign is more than bad.
You try to remake it
If so, it means that you are unhappy with him, he does not suit you in some way, or even infuriates you. You know, when people love each other, they themselves begin to change, no one forces them to do it. A loving person accepts a partner as he is, and does not seek to remake. And you try to control him by pointing out what to wear, how to say, what to do. This is not normal!
If you find these signs in yourself, then it's time for you to end your relationship. Don't torture yourself or your partner. You both deserve happiness and love, but unfortunately not with each other.
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