Do you believe that there can be just an unearthly connection between people? You know, this is when you meet a person and you feel that souls have known each other for a thousand years. You speak the same language, you have the same view of certain things, you have the same opinion, you can even supplement each other's sentences. This is so amazing, it is so inspiring and makes you think that you are really one whole. Of course, the point here may be that you have a similar upbringing, the same social status, almost the same formation of personalities. You went through it all separately, and when you finally met, you suddenly felt a kinship of souls. But this happens and not only because of this!
Sometimes people just actually meet their soul mate, regardless of upbringing, social status and other nuances. If you want to know if there is a strong bond between you at some special level, then you should pay attention to the following signs.
Here's what usually happens:
Before meeting this person, you were not looking for a serious relationship.
Before meeting this person, you were absolutely free, and did not look for a serious relationship at all. And when you met, both were amazed at the incredible connection and attraction. It even seemed to you that you had never experienced anything like this before. Your relationship develops so unexpectedly, rapidly, but everything happens logically. You cannot stop, you want to communicate, spend time together, you are so comfortable together.
You don't put much effort into the relationship.
We are accustomed to hearing everywhere that any relationship requires work, effort, that we need to try to make everything go well. But your couple has become an exception, yes, you seem to be trying, but your partner is trying for you, but you do not feel that you are bothering yourself, everything is going like clockwork, easily, calmly, freely. And you don't even think about what's between you. You are confident and calm in your partner and in the purity of your relationship.
You talk about absolutely everything
There are simply no taboo topics for you, you are ready to talk for hours and absolutely on any topic. You are happy to listen to each other, share secrets with each other, and you are sure that all your secrets are completely safe.
You make each other even better
At the same time, you do not force your partner to change, as he does you. You yourself are changing, and this is noticeable to your family and friends. Yes, you yourself notice positive changes in yourself.
You love yourself more because you love your partner
You don't lose yourself in a relationship, you don't lose yourself in love. You love your partner, and from this you love yourself even more. This is incredible, but it actually happens. You become much more confident in yourself and feel support from your partner.
You don't dwell on each other's flaws at all
It is clear that all people are imperfect. But you do not even see each other's shortcomings, do not try to remake each other. Everything suits you, you love your partner for who he is, and he accepts you the same way. This is truly the highest degree of love.
You support each other
You do not have a division into a man and a woman, in the sense that only from a man comes help and support, and a woman only receives it. In your relationship, everything is different, you always support each other, help when periods of decline occur. It's balancing each other that helps you be a very strong couple.
You sincerely wish each other happiness
Even if it happens that you do not stay together, you still wish each other happiness. There is simply unselfish love between you, and it will always exist, even if you are not around. Because the connection between you is on an unearthly level!
Yes, speaking of the last point, that's what wanted I would say. Sometimes people meet such a kindred spirit and feel connected when they are already in a relationship, and nothing can change. Then they become just close friends, and are really capable of much, for the sake of each other's happiness.
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