Sometimes men seem to be rude and heartless to women. After all, it is believed that this female part of the population has a desire to get married as soon as possible, and the stronger sex is afraid of the registry office like fire. In fact, men, like women, also want to be the only ones, loved, happy, build their own family nest, and have offspring. They just mature more slowly, and later realize that they need a family.
Very often men meet their fate in general suddenly, even without counting on it. They live quietly for themselves, and then bam, and she, the love of all life! At first, they don't even realize that they met her, the very same one. And only with time does the realization of the truth come to them, because a woman changes their outlook on life.
So in this very process, well, from meeting that very one to realizing that it is she, a man goes through 5 stages. Yes, don’t laugh, it’s like that for everyone, if you infiltrate or change stages, you can ruin everything.
5 stages of a man's realization that he met the very same
Negation
Maybe you find it funny, and someone will try to refute the existence of this stage, but it really exists! Think, the man suddenly realized that he had fallen in love, but he was not used to a serious relationship, he was simply not going to "get into" deep feelings, romance, confessions and so on. And then she appeared, so beautiful, interesting, attractive, and he falls in love with her. This was not part of his plans. And the man refuses to accept that he suddenly met a special woman. He tries to convince himself that she is the same as the others, there is nothing unusual, beautiful, special in her. He convinces himself that this relationship will end, just like the past.
Respect
Then the man has the second stage - respect. Communicating with a woman, he begins to understand that she is not like everyone else, special, unusual. And he experiences some special feelings next to her. He suddenly realizes that for the first time in his life, he is respected, and he respects in return. He understands that this woman is worth him, his time, his attention. In addition, he begins to understand that he does not want to lose her.
The trust
More often than not, men prefer to keep their emotional past a secret. But when they really like a woman, when they have sympathy, attraction and respect for her, they want to share with her intimate details from their past. If a man realizes that he has met a special woman, he becomes open with her.
"Am I ready for this?"
This is the stage that comes in turn, and when a man seems to be in love, inspired by feelings, is afraid of losing a woman. A strange thought suddenly creeps into my head: "Am I ready for all this?" Doubt man begins in himself, he becomes unsure whether he wants a serious relationship, even if they already located. He is afraid of getting burned, afraid that he will not be good enough. And, by the way, many men at this very stage end their relationship with a woman.
Adoption
Those who have gone through the previous stage move into the acceptance stage. A man begins to realize that this particular woman is the only one, she is not like the others, she is so one of a kind. He accepts himself completely new - loving with all his heart, serious and even family! Now he understands that without this woman he simply cannot live!
I wish you all, dear women, real female happiness, endless love and mutual understanding with your partner!
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