I recently met my old friend. We have a big age difference, he is almost 20 years older, but we have always been on good terms, because we lived in the same entrance. Not all neighbors developed such good relations, but it was with this man that our whole family became friends. So, just recently, I met him after 5 years, as he moved with his wife to another area. We decided to have a cup of coffee in a cafe, and he told me very interesting information.
A friend of mine broke up with his wife almost as soon as he moved to another house. Since then, he has remained a bachelor, says that he never found a worthy woman. By the way, he is already 54 years old.
And then I will tell you about his thoughts. A friend of mine said that he stopped liking older women, but no, he didn’t covet the young, he preferred to remain lonely. So he said that all women over 50 constantly complain that they do not come across standing men worthy of them. But it is not clear what they really need! An acquaintance of mine in a good position, provided for himself and his adult children, just makes great money. He is always well, clean and stylishly dressed, he smells incredibly expensive! He has a housekeeper who comes by a couple of times a week and cleans the apartment.
He himself can make repairs, and fix what is broken, he knows how to cook. Economic, hardworking, and in general, I would say, from all sides a positive person. Of course, he is popular with women. And after parting with his wife, he met with the ladies a couple of times, but these novels were very short. Because he no longer wants to build relationships with anyone. Here, it would seem, you are beautiful, secured - find yourself a young girl, and build happiness. But no, my friend would like to see a mature and intelligent woman next to him, because, despite the attractiveness of the young, he has little in common with them.
It is only among women over 45-50 that there are so few of those with whom you can build a real family. I asked why, and my friend told me about what turns him off in women of this age.
What turns off grown men about grown women?
They constantly have many problems and are unhappy.
It's just that women over the age of 45 do not know how to be happy. They complain about everything, they constantly have some problems in life. They do not know how to live for themselves. And the fact is that such women, if they are looking for a man for themselves, then in order for him to help them get out of problems, including money. But a woman over 45 already has adult children, or even grandchildren, and my friend is confused by the fact that, wanting to live his life with a lady of the heart, he will have to provide for the life of complete strangers to him of people.
They suffer constantly
Unfortunately, this is the mentality. Many, but no, most adult women constantly pretend to be a sufferer - this is their normal state.
They don't look after themselves
To many, it seems quite natural to be overweight and not well-groomed when you are 50 years old. Looking at women from other countries, you can understand that this is also our mentality, unfortunately. It is rare to find a woman who has even turned 40, and who will look stylish, remain slim and beautiful.
They have few interests
As a friend of mine said, women aged 45 and above have a rather limited outlook. I think it comes from a young age. If all your youth you read a lot, go in for sports, try to develop yourself, then this, so to speak, agility will be in you until very old age. And, if you have lived all your life only for a man, then for children, and then for grandchildren, then what kind of outlook is there? How to roll tomatoes for the winter and wash the windows? Oh, how I agree with him here!
They are too accessible
If young girls at least somehow try to "fill their own worth", well, or move by some kind of moral principles, then adult ladies, according to my friend, are very accessible. They should only be invited to a cafe for a cup of coffee, and they are no longer averse to going to visit him.
After our conversation, I felt somehow sad. Well, what drives our women, that they put an end to themselves without hesitation? I would say that now even women in their 30s and 35s are different in this regard. Forgive me, but the belly hangs, and she almost growling says: "I still gave birth to two." They go to work with a dirty head, instead of self-development they have a rest with a can of beer. And the men are all goats.
I would like to ask you what you think, well, why is this happening? What is wrong with us women? It seems to be contagious! And what to do to remain interesting for men even at the age of 45?
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