You shouldn't think that psychopaths are just heroes of films, and in ordinary life you will never come across them. You can be with a psychopath for many years and not understand this. He can behave appropriately, call himself your friend, and absolutely no one will even guess about his true face. Psychopaths do not inflict physical harm; more often than not, they simply irritate others, manipulate them, and dominate them. Psychos love to pretend and play these roles because they know how to get what they want.
So how do you know if you are dealing with a psychopath?
More often than not, psychos do not expose their gut in front of everyone. Therefore, you may not find any signs of their current mental state. Mostly psychopaths hide behind the appearance of people who are admired by others! They know how to use it, they carefully consider each step, and know how to humiliate people in all aspects of their life. The psychopath's intentions are most often explained by cravings for love, money and sexual pleasure. But I suggest that you still try to recognize the psycho, I tell you how!
Here are the features of a psychopath
He lies and makes excuses
Honestly, we all have to cheat sometimes. We can lie to ourselves or others. But with a real psychopath, everything is different, he constantly cheats, constantly! All his words are sheer lies, impossible promises, gossip. He constantly lies to himself. If the psycho is caught in a lie, he begins to come up with a thousand excuses and excuses for himself, and again lies, confusing others. A constant lie suggests that a person is not all right with the psyche!
Domination
There is nothing wrong with someone holding a higher position and someone lower. But with psychos it's different, they love to dominate in everything and always, and they look at people from top to bottom. The interlocutor has the impression that he is generally a loser, he begins to feel insecure, broken, there is some kind of guilt. Surprisingly, psychopaths are able to turn the situation around so cleverly that they are asked for forgiveness, they are obeyed, they are obeyed. The psycho knows which point to put pressure on so that the person becomes very nervous.
Condemnation and hypocrisy
Another characteristic of a psychopath is that he likes to judge others, pointing out his shortcomings and mistakes. He can tell you something like: “nothing happens to everyone,” and then he will bring your mistake to the general discussion, and will be one of the first to throw a stone at you, humiliate you, condemn you.
The many faces
The most characteristic feature of a psychopath is that he can change masks, depending on the situation that arises. Now he is an angel, then he is a demon, then he is the best friend, then the real enemy. Psychos deftly adjust to the mood of the interlocutor, they act carefully and cunningly, where necessary, they show weakness, and where necessary they can push!
Victim
When a psychopath has an insidious plan or everything does not go quite as he needs, he begins to pretend to be a victim. It's very convenient, you mow as much as you want, and then pretend to be poor and unhappy. The psycho will never admit his guilt, and deftly shifts all responsibility for what he has done to others. Whatever one may say, he will make himself a victim, and everyone will treat him with sympathy and compassion.
Psychopaths are quite common in our life path. Therefore, you should be more attentive to those with whom you communicate!
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