You, probably, have long understood that all our thoughts and words tend to materialize? Throughout our long life, we sometimes utter phrases, the meaning of which we don’t think about at all. Through thoughtlessly spoken words, we lose friends, relatives and harm ourselves. From now on, stop telling yourself these phrases, and you can build your own life!
These things prevent us from being happy, especially if we not only say them, but replay them from day to day in our head. Reconsider your attitude towards life, your personal needs, and your successes / failures. Don't waste your life on nothing!
Harmful phrases that poison your life
It's not enough for me
Here I want to give one example. Here, look, a family lives on a salary of 15 tr. a month, and realizes that this is not enough for her. Well, there are no options, you need to exert the maximum amount of effort, time and health to get up, especially if the family has a small child. A miracle happens, and the family manages to double their income, but after a very short time, the thought appears that this is not enough. Incomes grow, and needs grow, and this can go on indefinitely.
If a person constantly lives with the thought that this is not enough for him, this means that he considers himself undeserving of happiness. Here's another example. A woman has an average husband, responsible, without bad habits, rude words, and even more so, assault on his part. But the woman has the thought in her head that this is not enough for her. She is unhappy, her husband is unhappy, and so they live. Such thoughts that you are not enough drag you down, not allowing you to find your happiness. If you respect others, if you don't give up on the way to achieving your goal, if you have the bare minimum, then you have enough. And this does not mean that you will necessarily achieve success in everything you undertake, it means that you remain human. And you may be aware that you have enough, but want more! These are two things that do not exclude each other!
Someday
Do you know what your "someday" means? It means never. This is an illusion, a fantasy, something not tangible. If you tell yourself that someday you will do, someday it will be better, someday you will not have to fight for your happiness, etc., this sets unrealistic goals for you.
I am a loser
Another phrase that unsettles us, makes us come to terms with the current circumstances and no longer move towards success and happiness. All people are mistaken, but this is not a reason to withdraw into oneself, fold pens and continue to humiliate oneself with such a phrase. You are not a loser. It's time to learn from your mistakes to gain experience, learn a lesson and move on. A person is always in the process of growth, which means that on the way to this growth he will both gain success and fail. But this does not mean that he is a failure. Life has completely different plans than yours. And everything cannot always be smooth, work on yourself, learn from your mistakes, do not give up, you will succeed.
Of course, there are much more negative, harmful and destructive phrases in our lives, it all depends on the people themselves and their boundless imagination. But I have highlighted these three, because they hinder us on the way to our success. But happiness is not so elusive, and we can all experience it if we allow it to come into our lives naturally!
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