To listen to many, they have 10, 20, or even more friends. Personally, I have only a few of them, because over the years and with the circumstances, many have dropped out, and only the most faithful, devoted, reliable remained. If you are also such a "lucky" person who has a million friends in social networks, and you are with them all you correspond, you can meet, and they are even aware of all your affairs, then I, if I were you, would not rejoiced. As an experiment, ask all your friends for help, money, something like that, and then see who will not refuse you. I think not everyone will react correctly, no one needs other people's problems, only close and real friends.
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Here are signs that you have a real friend next to you.
Your friend doesn't gossip behind your back
It's simple. You are one with him, you can discuss anything and anyone, but when you are not together, you do not talk nasty things about each other!
Your friend makes you happier.
At the same time, he simply does not have to make you happy, because everyone is only himself responsible for his own happiness. But all the same, he makes it so that you feel good, breathe easily, and your eyes shine with happiness, because he is pleased to bring you joy.
He takes you for who you are
With a real friend, you don't have to pretend at all, hide nothing, and don't pretend to be who you are not. He knows everything about you, about your past, about your habits, and he adequately treats all this. Moreover, he does not spread rumors about you and does not condemn behind your back, smiling in your eyes.
You are comfortable next to him
We may feel differently with certain people or with other people, but if our true friend is next to us, we seem to soar in the clouds. This is how it should be with friends - easy, calm, fun, comfortable. With friends, in general, time flies so quickly!
He tells you the truth to your eyes, even if it is very bitter
Many are offended by the truth, but when a person sincerely wishes you good and happiness, he will not be silent, he will say everything as it is. You can lie to yourself as much as you like, but your friend will not succeed, he will always help you open your eyes to circumstances and to other people.
Your friend is not jealous of other people.
It's like a relationship between a man and a woman. Jealousy is the result of mistrust in a partner, and in friendship, if one doubts, it means that something is wrong there in communication. This is an unhealthy relationship, when your friend tries to concentrate all your attention on himself, you are a person, not a thing!
He works on your relationship.
Yes, both have to work on the relationship of friends too! After all, any relationship must be maintained and developed, right? It happens that one tries more than the other - this is normal, but it should not be like this forever.
He is with you not only in bad times, but also in joy
There is a proverb: "A friend is known in trouble." Yes, it is true when your friend can always lend his shoulder to you in difficult moments of life. But I would add here that "a friend is known in joy." The fact is that not everyone can withstand the success of others, and this, too, immediately shows a real friend or envious person.
He doesn't exaggerate the problem.
Here we are talking about what your real friend will never dramatize. Just think, everyone is wrong, everyone has a bad day, why be discouraged, you need to move on.
You and your friend share a lot of memories.
Most often, real friends are those who appeared in your childhood, even before you began to partake together. By the way, if you have friends with whom you met at a party, then these are ordinary drinking companions. And with a real friend you have so many common memories that sometimes it seems that you are not just friends for many years, but live together. You can remember something and laugh at something, and no one will understand your jokes.
Now tell me, how many real friends do you have?
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