These people need to be driven out of your life. They only spoil our existence, while receiving strength and pleasure. Sometimes a person himself does not know that he is an energy vampire, but people near him feel very bad, while he himself experiences a surge of energy at such moments.
Here are the signs that an energy vampire is poisoning your life too. Take note and, if possible, interrupt all communication!
- It is very difficult for you to explain why you suddenly feel exhausted and deprived of energy. After communicating with a vampire, you do not want to do anything at all, you are depressed, and this can last for several days, even if the communication was only once.
- You, somehow on a subconscious level, want to hide from a person. Try not to answer his calls and not write SMS in return. You come up with any reasons not to meet him in any way. However, in the end, for some reason, you still meet, while feeling a feeling of discomfort and inconvenience.
- You tell your loved ones that you feel exhausted, you get the impression that someone is literally draining your whole soul out of you.
- The energetic vampire sets himself up so that you yourself begin to help him and solve his problems. And he himself does not even ask you about it. You just feel uncomfortable when he feels bad, but you feel good.
- You don't even realize that the energy vampire humiliates and offends you. The most interesting thing is that even after communicating with him, when you feel exhausted and offended, you still cannot remember what he did to you that could hurt and unsettle you.
- When an energy vampire says something, he behaves so confidently that you begin to believe every word he says. In addition, you begin to doubt your correctness, and in general, your sanity.
- An energetic vampire is able to find negativity in anything. Even if you share something good with this person, he will definitely find something bad in it. He just steals your joy, this is his hobby.
- Your acquaintance, who is an energy vampire, behaves in a dual manner. Now he can show himself as a best friend, and after a few minutes he begins to insult you, humiliate and behave aggressively.
- You are constantly in tension because the energy vampire is always criticizing and blaming everyone and everything. This makes you very nervous.
- You are very anxious about meeting this person. And you yourself cannot explain to yourself why you are so worried. You think about how you look, come up with what you say, etc.
- You, without knowing why, constantly make excuses to this person and try to look convincing, confident in yourself.
- In dealing with an energy vampire, his superiority is clearly felt. As if he is one step above you. He just really thinks he's the best of the best.
- You have to convince an energy vampire almost every day that you are great, that you are worthy, that you are good. And only after proof you have the right to communicate with him and share details from your life.
- You feel total control from the person. It is as if you are not living your life, everything that happens to you is as if it comes with the permission of an energy vampire.
- This person loves to gossip about others, but when you are not around, he is happy to wash your bones.
- You have ceased to understand what you are dreaming about, you cannot set clear goals for yourself. Your life has turned into some kind of uncertainty, confusion, chaos. As soon as you tell a person about some of your ideas, he begins to convince you that they are meaningless and stupid.
- The energy vampire is used to labeling everyone. He condemns everyone around and speaks negatively even to people he barely knows.
- This person will never be happy for you if you are successful. He doesn't know how to love at all. You can get a drop of compassion from him only if you are sick, poor and homeless. And your success is like a red rag to a bull for him.
- When you have accurately identified an energy vampire, and try to tell him about it, he will deny everything. He will never admit that he has any problems, he will swear, get angry, insult and humiliate you. And you know what? You will believe him again!
Don't let the energy vampire poison your life. If you notice at least 2-3 signs, do not expect the person to change. Better stop any communication with him!
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