Everyone in relationships has crises, and then the question arises: try to save what is, or just give up, turn around and leave. Most often, when difficult moments arise between people, the first thing that comes into your head is to save yourself, not spoil your life with empty relationships and just break everything. Yes, many people do this, instead of changing something in themselves and trying to work on the relationship.
Of course, there are situations when getting out of a relationship and leaving without looking back is the only option. It's about relationships in which there is violence and assault.
But, what if this is not the case in your relationship, but some kind of chill, small arguments, misunderstanding of each other just appeared? Understand that you can still get everything back if you love each other and if you make an effort to save your couple despite the hardships!
Now, when you both realize that you did everything you could to improve your relationship, but nothing has changed, then it’s definitely better to disagree. However, experts highlight some signs that indicate that you can still try to save your relationship!
Signs your relationship may still be given a second chance
You get better in this relationship.
Everything is simple here. Think carefully, before this relationship you liked yourself more or less? If your answer is less, then that is a very good sign. It means that it was with this person that you became different, better than you were before. When a person is in a toxic relationship, he changes for the worse and sometimes beyond recognition. If the relationship is good, then it flourishes, it gets better.
External conflicts interfere with your relationship
Maybe you live with your parents, you have problems with relatives, you have some kind of stress in terms of finances. This is real stress, which, of course, can leave an imprint on your personal relationships. Understand that all these problems do not come from you, but from the outside!
You and your partner respect and support each other
If people stop loving each other, they stop respecting each other. If there is respect in your couple, then love is still alive! You definitely need to stop thinking about the breakup and try to work on the relationship.
Your family and friends love your relationship.
From the side it is sometimes better to see what you cannot see with your own eyes. Your friends and relatives think that you are a happy couple, that you are very suitable for each other, and they convince you that you should not rush to part.
You understand that you want to be together
Despite all the difficulties that arise, quarrels, misunderstandings, you are drawn to each other, you still want to be together. Remember, as in the registry office: in illness and health... If you want to be together, then this is a healthy basis for relationships!
There are more good moments in your relationship than bad ones.
Think about your relationship, remember all the good and bad that happened between you. You can even take a piece of paper and write everything in two columns. If the good outweighs, then you need to work on the relationship, they can still be saved.
You have some inner feeling that you should be together
Women's intuition is a magical thing. After all, sometimes in a relationship there is a feeling that it's time to leave. If it seems to you that it is worth trying again, that you need to stay in the relationship and fight, you should trust it and really fight!
If you both believe that the relationship can be saved, you are already halfway to your happiness!
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