When a person truly loves, he sometimes closes his eyes to many things. But a partner can simply use your feelings, use you for their own purposes. Sometimes it turns out that a man is too young for a relationship with a woman, and this is even, despite the fact that he has already celebrated his majority a long time ago. If a man cannot cope with his role as a reliable partner, loving, caring and respecting you, then you do not have to endure it. Just respect yourself, that's enough to get away from such a partner. If he doesn't respect you, if he doesn't treat you the way you deserve it, then don't waste your time. There are things that you should never put up with in a relationship!
Consider breaking up with your partner if this happens in your relationship!
He takes you and your feelings seriously.
No one should take your feelings as frivolous. What is all this for? You sincerely treat your partner, dream of a future with him, you endure all the events that take place in your relationship so emotionally. And in this case, a man who truly loves you will understand this, he will respect your feelings. If your partner does not love you, he will disregard your feelings, he will not be interested in your feelings. You may worry that something has gone wrong in your relationship, and he will not be ready to listen to these "nonsense", because he believes that you are just doing nonsense.
He flirts with other women.
It is not normal for a partner to flirt with other women. And here it doesn't matter at all whether he does it openly in front of you, or behind your back. This is despicable of him anyway. Of course, when we are in a relationship, we may find other, strangers attractive, but this does not mean that we must necessarily act according to our instincts. If a person has a brain, then he will always stop and think before shoving in the wrong direction.
He dominates you physically and emotionally.
Some are very happy that a man is dominant in a relationship, such a distribution of roles was acceptable, for example, in Soviet times - you are a woman, your business is to cook borscht. It's your business, your partner can be a breadwinner, and you are a housewife, but when he makes you do something under compulsion, tries to put pressure on you emotionally and physically, then this is not normal. Your partner needs to make it clear right away that he should reckon with your feelings and desires, and he shouldn't give up slack, and let him at least occasionally "crush" you with his domination.
He makes you live a certain way
This is about control, which is unacceptable in a relationship. With whom you communicate and with whom you do not, what is and what is not, what to do in a relationship and what not - only you decide. You have the freedom to make decisions because you are a person.
He insults you
Humiliation and offensive words are not acceptable in a relationship. There should be respect and understanding between you and your partner, and this does not mean that there should be no quarrels. Learn to sort things out without losing your composure, and your partner should do the same.
He is sexually rude
Sexual coercion is also unacceptable in a relationship. Your partner should not force you to do anything in bed under duress. If you feel uncomfortable with this, you don't have to!
He makes fun of you very painfully
There is nothing without humor in a relationship, but it should be healthy and adequate, and it should not bring you discomfort and pain. A partner has no right to taunt you, humiliate you, make fun of you, especially in the presence of third parties. He has no right to hurt your feelings!
Do not tolerate this in your relationship!
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