You probably don't want to waste your precious time with a man who is just playing with you, who is fooling you and deceiving you? You are unlikely to like such a gentleman who constantly runs away from conversations or gets confused in his own desires?
Not everyone is given to be emotionally available, there are people who are very afraid of intimacy, relationships, romance. There may be a lot of reasons for this, for example, lack of confidence in their desires, a person himself may not understand what exactly he wants from a relationship. It can be a fear of closeness, when a man seems to be drawn to a woman, but as soon as it comes to a serious relationship, he gives back. Relationships with such men are like a roller coaster!
Therefore, I advise you to pay attention to the signs of a man's emotional unavailability, so as not to waste your time in vain!
He avoids affection and affection
Any manifestation of affection in public, an accidental kiss and touch - all this is very frightening of an emotionally inaccessible man. Because it leads to an intimacy that also scares him.
He has no close friends
Probably, many women would like to have a relationship with such a man who will not spend time with friends. But when a man has no friends at all, it is very strange. This means that he is not able to share his thoughts and feelings with anyone, including his partner. Perhaps he has 2-3 comrades with whom he occasionally sees, but he will never trust them if he has problems.
He does not introduce you to his environment
He is very afraid to mix different areas of his life with each other. Friends are friends, colleagues are colleagues, women are women. In some cases, such individuals panic when the time comes to introduce the chosen one to her parents.
He is fickle in his feelings for you.
Today he simply adores you, and tomorrow he does not show any interest in you at all. This is also an alarming sign. A man is afraid to let him in, because he is afraid to be emotionally close with a woman. Such a man loves to spend time with women, but he is afraid to establish relationships with them. He may weave something about love for his ex, that he is not yet ready for a relationship, or that the divorce of his parents negatively affected him. In fact, he is simply not able to build healthy relationships.
He is independent and he likes to keep repeating this.
He constantly says that he is against marriage, that it is good for him to live alone, that he cannot devote himself to one and only woman. That's how he says it is, think about it!
He lives for today
He doesn't want to think about how your relationship will develop. Or he tells you what you wanted to hear, and then just takes his words back, and he doesn't care how his lies affect you.
It may disappear for several days
A man who likes a woman will be constantly in touch with her, will call, write, make appointments. But an emotionally unavailable man will be silent for several days, and get in touch only in order to amuse his ego, or for the sake of sex.
You cannot understand his intentions
He does not want a serious long-term relationship, but instead of telling the woman about this, he continues to see her and devote time to her. This creates feelings of uncertainty about the partner's intentions.
You won't change an emotionally unavailable man. He will be constantly afraid of something, hide, disappear. You'd better back off and not waste your time on it. Appreciate and love yourself first of all!
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