According to psychologists, divorce in terms of its emotional impact is in second place after the death of a loved one. Yes, divorce is very difficult, first of all morally. Many women, having separated from their spouse, begin to worry very much, and blame themselves for what happened. They reproach themselves for the fact that they did not manage to save the marriage, although the reason for what happened in reality may be the man.
But for some reason, it is the woman who feels guilty, because it seems to her that she somehow misbehaved herself, made mistakes. To save your marriage and not bring the relationship to a breakup, read these tips from a divorced woman!
The divorced woman's experience in 14 tips
- You should always see only the best in your spouse. You don't have to pay attention to something bad and what you don't like. Be impressed by what you admire about him.
- Nothing strengthens a marriage more than frequent intimacy. Therefore, have sex with your husband as often as possible, and for him, and for you, and for your union, it will be very useful.
- Feel free to occasionally ask other women who are married and older for advice. But only advice you need to ask those ladies who are happy in marriage.
- Do not try to constantly control the man in everything. He should be able to be alone, go about his business, meet with friends.
- Do not try to change your husband in any way. When a person wants to change, he will certainly do it, but you cannot impose your opinion and your views on him. If your spouse himself does not change, then your attempts will not lead to anything good either.
- Praise your man as often as possible, thank him for the washed plate, compliment him regarding his appearance, courage, help, sexual ability.
- Appreciate your spouse. He chose you, and you love yourself. Appreciate everything he does for you!
- Laugh at your husband's jokes, even if they don't seem very funny to you.
- Keep your emotions in check. It is the excessive female emotionality that leads to frequent quarrels and scandals.
- A man, coming home, should be able to rest. It is necessary to create a comfortable home atmosphere for him so that he can exhale after a hard day and not be tense. Do not saw, do not endure his brain, otherwise he will simply leave you for a wiser woman.
- Love your husband as much as you can.
- You should always look good, even if you haven't slept well at night, even if you are not in the mood to put on makeup. You must be well-groomed and feminine, so that your spouse is pleased to look at you, so that he wants to touch you and kiss you.
- Show attention to your husband. Be mindful of what he tells you, what he does, and what he asks you to do.
- Never compare your spouse to other men. Do not try to get something out of him by praising others, thereby humiliating him. He must be the best and the best for you, otherwise, why did you love him then?
It is definitely worth listening to these tips. How many women around the world behave proudly, rudely in marriage, do not show their husband signs of attention, refuse sex, endure the brain. And then, when a man has had enough of all this, he decides to go for a divorce, these ladies simply cannot understand what they did wrong. And you do so! Use the advice of a woman who learned a lesson from divorce and gained experience!
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