There are people who seem pleasant in appearance, they are courteous, open, cheerful with you, but in fact, they have bad intentions. Sooner or later, the mask of a wonderful person begins to creep, and the real essence peeps out. In order not to waste your time with such people, and immediately bring them to clean water, I recommend that you pay attention to these signs. They will point out to you that the person is not at all who they say they are.
6 signs a person has bad intentions
He constantly demands something from you
Deep down, this manipulator is sure that he is better than others, and thinks that it is his right to use others. Therefore, he uses you to his advantage. It is not necessary to fulfill his demands, following the lead, especially if these very demands begin to turn into a threat to break the "friendship". If a person threatens to stop communicating with you, due to the fact that you do not fulfill his requests, then he is definitely not your friend.
You feel empty after talking to him
If after communicating with this person, you feel somehow devastated and strange, then your subconscious mind is trying to convey the truth to you. With really good people you always feel free and easy, after communicating with them it becomes even more better than it was, but if you had to meet a wolf in sheep's clothing, then after communicating with him you will not yourself.
He has a certain body language and look
Manipulators know how to win over a person with one glance and certain gestures. Take a closer look, and it will immediately become clear to you that everything is simulated. A close look in the eyes can say a lot, and crossed arms are another confirmation that not everything is in order with this person's intentions.
He knows how to convince
This person somehow masterfully behaves so that you start to trust him, he is able to convince you to do something, even if it hurts you. Your resistance will lead to the fact that the manipulator will start to press, will come up with some roundabout ways, and even connect outsiders, for example, your friends. Be careful.
He jokes insulting and demeaning
It would seem, well, how a joke from a "friend" can humiliate or insult? But the manipulator is trying with all his might to lower your self-esteem, acting through the "language of humor." He can offend you, while smiling, and reinforcing his words with the phrase: "Yes, I was just kidding." Well, here it is clear that the person mocks you, and does not break off relations with you, because he needs you for something. And all these offensive statements are not a joke, but a way to make you feel second-rate, below the manipulator himself.
You always have a one-way conversation with him.
A person with bad intentions tends to dominate in all situations and in all discussions. In fact, your conversation turns into a monologue, naturally with him alone in the lead role. And you even find it difficult to insert a word. All topics instantly turn to his stories, his praise, etc.
It is rather difficult to immediately see through a person, and understand that under the guise of a kind and good "friend" is a malicious manipulator with insidious intentions. Be more attentive, do not waste your time and nerves on someone who does not deserve it. Do not cling to friendship with such a person, do not be afraid to break off relations with him. Appreciate and respect yourself!
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