I have always thought that if a man has cheated, it means that he is simply, to put it mildly, a bad person. But men themselves are able to justify their act. Read this article, I wrote it based on male excuses. Here is what 9 men answered to the question: "Why did you change?"
1. Why a man went for treason, he cannot explain. Youth, stupidity, alcoholic intoxication. The next morning it was very difficult for him to tell his girlfriend about it, to admit everything, but he did it. It was very difficult for him and her. Now they are all together as well. But a man does not drink alcohol without his girlfriend, because, as he himself says, it is alcohol that pushes him to rash acts.
2. The first two girls, men cheated on him, so he had a certain stereotype of women. He was in pain, therefore, even being in a relationship with a faithful good girl, he cheated first, or maybe the only one, so that the pain, in case of the infidelity of the half, was not so burning.
3. The man had a long distance relationship. It's hard, boring, lonely. When there was some disagreement with the girl, a pleasant person turned up for him. An intimacy has occurred. The man admitted this to his second half, and the relationship completely came to naught.
4. The man was able to build a strong relationship with a beautiful girl. There was love, loyalty, passion, trust. In recent years, it has been the best and longest relationship he has, and everything even went to the wedding. But then he had a terrible day at work, and at that moment his ex wrote to him, and he answered her. Correspondence ensued, which eventually led to intimacy. When the man's girl found out about the betrayal, she just broke up with him.
5. The man has been married for over 25 years. During all this time, he had different mistresses, and with some of them the relationship lasted for several years. As he himself said, he lacked intimacy with his wife, and he stopped feeling wanted, attractive, loved. And only thanks to other women, he began to feel happy again. Almost all of his mistresses are friends or acquaintances of his wife, and they knew for sure that he would not divorce, and they did not want to spoil the relationship with the woman, so they were silent.
6. The man claims that he is unable to control himself when the woman herself hangs on him. He even considers it a disease or addiction that is difficult to get rid of.
7. A man in his youth allowed himself to meet with several women at once. And, when he met his only one, and even married her, he could not give up the feeling of being needed and desired by other ladies.
8. The man began dating a woman who, in fact, truly fell in love with him. She was ready for anything for him, surrounded by her attention and care. And the man was frightened, because in the family where he is tall, he received less love and was not used to being treated so well. Therefore, he wanted to break up with this girl, and to have a reason, he simply cheated on her.
9. The man claims that his beloved is just an ideal mistress, a beauty, a good companion, he loves her and even worships her. But there is one drawback, she is not able to fully satisfy him sexually. Therefore, he finds this satisfaction on the side. But the man is not going to leave his beloved, he just satisfies the physical needs with other ladies.
While writing this article, I was constantly jerking. I think treason is meanness, and no excuses will help. No matter what men say, you cannot believe the deceivers, if they betrayed once, they will betray again. If you have changed, there is no forgiveness for you!
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