All of us, moms and dads, adore our children. We try to do everything so that they grow up happy and are surrounded by our care and love. But they say that when a person has grandchildren, he begins to love them even more than his own children, and even more than these children themselves. And grandma's love for her first grandson is considered the most perfect on earth!
In general, even the Chinese have the following proverb: "The most perfect love is the love of a grandmother for her first grandson." But why? Does this mean that grandmothers love the rest, or rather their subsequent grandchildren, less? Of course not, grandmother's love is divided equally for everyone. It's just that the first grandson turns a woman into a grandmother. She begins to experience completely different feelings than even with the birth of her first child. She learns to give all her care and love to her own person, who is not a mother. The first grandson may be a child of both a son and a daughter, but all the same, his grandmother's love for him is ideal, pure, honest, real and the most perfect in his life!
Now the image of a grandmother that we are used to has changed a lot, but she still occupies a very significant place in the child's life.
When a woman's first grandson is born, she suddenly begins to understand that old age has come. At first, it can even negatively affect her mood, causing sadness and sadness. But as soon as the grandmother sees this little lump, her life is filled with new meaning. This is a slightly different meaning than giving birth to your first child. The grandmother begins to understand that not only has she already raised her children, but she has also waited for the continuation of her kind!
A grandmother for every person is a very dear beloved person. Throughout her life she tries to help her grandson and support him in everything. She can even allow him what she did not allow her children.
Today modern grandmothers are a little different than they were before. They lead an active lifestyle, love to travel, have an interesting hobby, continue to work, and also cope with their other duties.
If the first grandchild is the daughter's child, then the relationship between the daughter and the mother improves. They become more trusting, warm, light. Mom and daughter begin to communicate like friends, sharing their life experiences, consulting, secreting.
The role of the grandmother in the life of her grandchildren is simply enormous. She tries to support in everything, she is always ready to help, even in a difficult situation, she is always happy to share her experience, pamper, and allow what parents forbid.
Parents of a child need to be more tolerant of grandmothers, and teach this to their children. All the efforts, patience and help of the grandmother come from the very heart, and she should be appreciated for this!
Every grandmother tries to earn the love of her grandson, and tries to find as much time as possible to communicate with him.
She surrounds her loved one with immense tenderness, love, awe. And it all balances between freedom and affection, while not losing its magical significance.
A pregnant daughter or a pregnant daughter-in-law, and a long wait for the birth of a baby. And then the moment came when they brought to the grandmother a little toddler, which is so similar to her own daughter or son. And all that is not given goes to him, all that affection, tenderness and care that have accumulated, perhaps over the years. Grandmother's love is no less than for her own children, and even great. Subsequent grandchildren are perceived by the grandmother more often with less emotionality. But it is wrong to say that she loves them less. Just the birth of the first grandson is a stormy joy that cannot be hidden. This love is perfect!
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