Throughout his life, a man needs the support of his mother. Her love is the most important thing to him. He may have his own affairs, wife, children, friends, but he so needs his mother's support and her advice.
Even when your son has become much taller than you, and his shoe size is narrower than that of an adult man, do not think that he does not need you so much. Even an adult son always remains his beloved child for his mother, and she for him is the most important person on the planet.
But, looking at an adult son with stubble on his face and hearing his rough timbre of voice, it begins to seem that his mother's custody is already a burden for him. But this is a very big mistake. Your son will always need you because you are his mother. You are his beloved and adored mother!
Sons always share with their mothers the events at school, sports achievements, interesting cases with friends, feelings of first love. They are always happy to laugh with their mothers, even at silly jokes. Mom is the dearest person for every child. I have heard many say that a son needs a father more to develop strength of character, and a daughter needs a mother to teach her to be a real woman. Perhaps there is some truth in this, but both parents are important for a child. For a girl, a father is an example of a man, she will choose partners for herself according to the level of her dad. And for a boy, mom is tenderness, care, an opportunity to keep secrets and be a little weak.
Moms always want to be aware of their sons' hobbies, interesting, even if most of it is incomprehensible to them.
And it is so important for sons that their mother greets them with a smile when they return home. They need their mother to be interested in their life, in the yard, in training, at school. They need mom to be able to listen carefully and then take part in the conversation.
Sons need to be 100% sure that mothers will take the time to listen to them and talk to them. They trust their mothers no matter what happens, because they know that they will support, advise, forgive.
Even an adult son needs maternal care. Sometimes he wants his mother to run around with him like a little one. And my mother knows very well that her son can prepare his own food and wash the dishes. But she so likes to pamper her boy, making him happy.
And every mother needs to keep her son under control. No, not to enter without demand, but to have information about his pastime.
A teenage son has a whole life ahead of him, there will be successes and also failures. Nobody is immune from this. And the mother's task is to be always there at a difficult moment. It is important to always show love so that the future man is confident in all his endeavors.
It is in adolescence, when his son's voice breaks, when he becomes taller, smarter, stronger, it is so important for him that his mother, along with him, rejoices in his small victories. Mom will always remain his most loyal fan.
And it does not matter at all how tall a man is and what size his feet are, he will forever remain her little boy for his mother.
Maternal love and support are important to every man. Even having their own family, they will try to carve out at least a little time to chat with their mother, talk about their experiences and plans. After all, you can talk with mom about everything in the world!
We cannot know how the life of our sons will turn out, but in one thing we can be 100% sure, we will forever remain for them the most important person on the whole earth - a mother.
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