Without communication, not a single person can exist normally. And our whole life is saturated with communication, this is wonderful, but it is worth knowing and following some rules in order to stay in good relations with others. How great it is when there is support from family and friends, when you can count on them in very difficult situations. It is our friends and family who are an indispensable attribute of happiness and success in life.
Unfortunately, relationships can not always be good, because it takes effort. I recommend everyone to follow these important and truly golden rules of communication that will help you maintain normal relationships with people!
Good communication rules
Don't accumulate resentment
No need to accumulate resentment, no matter how hard it is for you, learn to forgive. This, first of all, is needed not by the offender, but by yourself. You, if you want, can then not communicate with the offender at all, but you should learn to forgive. Accept, thank, perhaps even for the fact that you finally were able to open your eyes to the person, and then let go of everything that is happening in your soul and live on!
Do not be offended by children for their lack of understanding
We all were once children, and perceived the world around us, people and events differently, not in the same way as adults do. To understand you, your children must go through a certain life path. Don't forget about the long time distance! You know that the problem of fathers and children is eternal!
Do good selflessly
It's good that you are helping someone, doing good deeds. But you need to do them unselfishly, from a pure heart, without expecting anything in return. There is no need to expect that for your good deeds they will begin to respect and love you. You just need to enjoy doing good deeds. You will not wait for good in return for good, you will not be disappointed with people.
Do not criticize
It is useless to criticize someone. We all make mistakes, and it seems to us that we are doing the right thing. And is criticism so important to us? Of course not. Criticism causes offense, and nothing else, there is no sense from it. No wonder they say that before condemning a person, you need to put on his shoes and walk along his life path.
Don't argue
Is truth born in a dispute? No! In a dispute, a scandal is born, relations collapse, and nothing good comes of it. Do you want to be right or happy? This is the question to ask yourself when you are already close to an argument. All the same, be that as it may, each of us will remain on his own.
Don't impose your past
Yes, if you are asked to tell something - please do tell! But it is not necessary to impose. Any imposition generates aggression. This even applies to love ...
Don't hang up labels
Before expressing your opinion on a person's deed, evaluate his life, circumstances. Do you think you’ll lose your positive image if you don’t label the person as “bad” for their behavior? No! The main thing for you should be how you behave, and leave others alone.
Don't expect people to be like you
I repeat once again that we are all different, we have our own certain views on life, our own character traits and our habits. Therefore, do not try to break people, persuading them to do the same as you do, and be like you. Learn to accept people for who they are! All the same, you will not be able to fix anyone, we all have our own life path, do not impose!
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