The time we spend with our grandparents is so dear to all of us! Many are very fortunate, and even in adulthood they can visit their dear old people who are in advanced age. It is such a happiness to hug your dear person, dive into a lock of gray hair, stroke your cheek and look into loving eyes. The eyes of our grandparents are so wise, full of understanding and sincere love! Even during life, they protect us, pamper, protect us from everything bad. During their lifetime, they become our Guardian Angels.
When our old people leave for another world, we experience unbearable pain. This pain, it seems, cannot be compared with anything at all. My heart aches, my memory is strong tender embrace, tears are like a river. And that's when we have Guardian Angels. They are not the same as depicted in church images - with wings. It is our grandparents who become our Guardian Angels, who, even after death, protect us from everything bad. And they live as long as we remember them ...
Every minute the beloved eyes of our dear grandfathers and grandmothers look at us from heaven. They see everything that happens to us. Even after leaving this world, they continue to love us, give hints and care.
Grandparents see how we grow up, how we change, and, unfortunately, we are destined to see how they leave them. When, as a child, a person loses his grandmother or grandfather, it becomes a very crushing and painful blow for him. Yes, this is due to the fact that we are losing loved ones, but also because there is a very delicate special connection between grandchildren and their grandparents. This connection is a little different than with dad and mom. You, of course, have heard that grandparents love their grandchildren more than their own children? It's true! Only they so cherish and cherish, pamper us, adore, even when we stumble, or behave disobediently. Only they are ready to spend all their free time just to work out with their grandchildren. Only they are ready to give their entire pension, just to please the granddaughters' roads.
And now, when this connection collapses, or rather our old people die, we, their grandchildren, feel an especially acute loss. Especially when the loss occurs in childhood, it is so difficult for the child to understand the causes and inevitability of the grief that happened.
Parents also have a difficult time. First, they lose their moms and dads. Secondly, it is very difficult to explain to the child why this happened. It is important to tell everything as it is, it is important to talk without evasion. You can't forbid a child to cry, he must suffer through it, feel it, throw out the pain. Only the truth can be a good weapon for parents against a child's depression. No, there is no need to talk about religion, no need to confuse the already confused consciousness of a child. You just need to explain that death is inevitable, that it will overtake everyone in time. The child will understand everything, through pain, through time, but he will definitely understand.
After a while, we, grandchildren, no longer believe that grandparents will be with us throughout our lives. But their eternal life is contained precisely in our memory. As long as we remember, they are alive. Let not on earth, but in our hearts.
Remember your dead ancestors. Remember how you spent time together, how you laughed, played, walked, dined together. Remember what they taught you, how they supported you, what they advised you. It was our grandparents who taught us to be ourselves! We are the mirror of their soul, their reflection, they are in each of us. And while we are alive, our ancestors are also alive! This kind of love is special!
Our grandparents become our Guardian Angels ...
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