There are people who come into our lives only for a while, to teach us a lesson, to help in difficult times, to guide us on the true path. And there are people who are destined for us by fate.
Among the people that we meet throughout our life, one day we come across someone who is destined for us by fate. And we feel it, we understand that we do not want to part with him, we want to live together all our lives and grow old together.
How to understand that next to you is the one who is destined for you by fate?
You put his interests ahead of your ego.
You feel that this person is yours, and you want him to stay in your life forever, so you are ready to tame your ego for him and for the sake of his desires.
You are not afraid to become vulnerable
You allow yourself to become vulnerable around this person. You open up so much that you would be scared next to others. But you trust and you are not afraid of anything. You understand that the person will not take advantage of your vulnerability and will not harm you.
You are always honest with the person
You do not want to lie, hide something, you are like an open book. You are with your beloved on the same wavelength, you have nothing to hide, you feel good and interesting together. And in your relationship there is absolutely no place for manipulation and deception.
You are not trying to change each other
You love and accept each other with all the advantages and disadvantages. And you don't even try to change anything. But at the same time, you want to change, become better than you are, for the sake of your partner, and he does the same.
You don't judge each other's shortcomings.
You never even thought that you need to hide your imperfections, and you accept the shortcomings of a loved one. But they don't seem like flaws to you. You can remain yourself, and accept your loved one as he is and no one else.
You are getting better because of this person.
You realize that you are getting better around this person. You compare yourself to yourself in the past, and you realize that before you were completely different. It is your loved one who awakens you to become better both externally and internally, both in actions and in your achievements.
You are always together if very difficult moments occur in life.
You feel that a person needs in difficult moments, that you should stay close, support, sympathize. You understand that in difficult times you have to become like one whole. And you are sure that your significant other will never leave you in such difficult moments.
You are not in competition with each other
You are not trying to outdo each other because you don’t want to turn your relationship into a competition. You support each other, you are on one side, not on different sides. The success of one of you is your overall success!
There is a special bond between you
You feel that there is a special bond between you, chemistry, something that is not visible, but tangible. You feel so good together that you forget about everyone and everything. And you understand that you have never had such closeness with any other person.
Together you feel completely safe
You know that your partner will never ridicule, criticize, condemn you. Next to him, you always feel safe in all respects. And he, too, is happy with you, and he understands that as long as you are around, nothing bad threatens him.
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