If you are over 30 and even "30 ..." it is not a fact that could still become a truly mature person. A lot of people stuck in the age of "global irresponsibility" and it feels great, is not trying to grow up. However, if they say so, some wonder, and the majority - to rebel. They believe that you are a person! But is it? Let's investigate. And for this there are 8 criteria developed by psychologists.
So, what is a really mature person? What are the qualities he possesses?
1. Healthy, adequate communication. It is first and foremost. And there is the main principle: "you asked, but you refused, and you are not offended." Exactly behave really adult, responsible people. You no one owes nothing to, all necessary to achieve on their own. Seek, and not moan!
2. Decision-making skills. It is capable of very few. And right would adults looking for a mentor in this matter. Not! They need a "psychological Mom", which will do everything for them.
3. Adoption of own feelings, including negative. An adult must be open in order to let your same experience and evaluate it objectively. Otherwise, it just will not experience.
4. Empathy for the other person. That it is held mature personality, interacting with others and always take into account their feelings and opinions. Only the foolish little kids want attention for themselves, their needs and concerns at any cost. They will also be hard to apply to communication, not paying attention to what the other party wants to or not.
5. He knows how to wait. This is somewhat different than "to be able to wait", simpler and more complex simultaneously. Just there are times when our haste and bustle tear affairs and plans, but only some, and it was necessary to show that a little patience. Then everything went exactly to "grown-up".
6. He pays attention to itself, without requiring such by others. Such a person always looks good, never late, does not give unrealistic promises. And all this - only to his credit. He was not attracted to the concerns about the appearance and the proper time to planning. That is what the adults.
7. He knows how to be grateful to the large and small. It is important to all - and just say "thank you" to my mother for a delicious meal, and not ignore the friendly assistance, and to respond to the request of a loved one.
8. He knows how to invest. And above all, in the relationship. And by the way, to give loved ones no less pleasant than to receive. Try it - it will definitely be "grown-up".
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