Even in his own life insecure person absolutely does not solve anything. He bezynitsiativen and gives in to the other. Losing great opportunities, surrenders without a fight in difficult moments. Nor suffer, suffer and suffer, accompanying its "flour" incessant whining.
Here, the phrase, without which a passive person simply can not live and on which you have it immediately "identified":
1. "The fate of no escape" and "so destined"
Yes, everyone has their own destiny. And in life things happen that way, as a "miracle" and not name. But such cases - a rarity, so rely on the 'gifts of heaven' silly and unproductive. If all the time to sit and press the "arrival of happiness" without showing absolutely no part ever and do not wait.
2. "Lucky people!"
Sometimes it happens. But as a rule, people do tend to realize a dream. They choose the route and, without turning, go to your goal in small steps. Closer, closer and closer, until they reach the desired. And you say "lucky" ...
3. Any phrase that other needs are put first. Phrases such as "if you do not mind, I would ..."
Similar words designate the person the nature of relations: it is now and forever - only the second. And that instead of clearly express ideas, defending their own interests.
4. "I do not know whom to support, who give preference!"
Passive person is difficult to determine the position. He is trying to please everyone, "to smooth the corners," does not accept any of the parties. It may even seem that you're dealing with non-conflict person. so maybe there is, but sooner or later it becomes annoying. Its an opinion ever will? You can not be for "all at once".
5. Phrases, seeking approval, such as "you do not mind if I say a few words"
However, no approval of such words do not get. Just an annoyance, especially where required rapid and precise evaluation, the rapid exchange of views. Such phrases are pre-reduce the value of everything that will be said next.
6. "So, I'm for it just is not created"
Such people throw everything almost stumbled on the first difficulties. And they find an excuse but in such "profound" statements.
7. "I'm certainly not an expert, but maybe ..." or "maybe wrong, but it seems to me ..."
That's when a man begins his speech by saying that he is wrong, because with him this quickly agree surrounding. The promise of something!
8. "Yes," where it is necessary to say a resounding "no." It is phrases like "I get up early tomorrow, but I'll take you ..."
These people are constantly spoil your life and break plans, because they can not deny to others. And we must be able to refuse. Otherwise, you spend a lifetime in bondage. That's only gratitude will not wait - and all will consider you limp rag that does not have and can not have the right to vote as there can not be a personal opinion.
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