Gazlayting as one of the most common forms of psychological abuse, practiced by people with a narcissistic disorder, as well as psychopaths and sociopaths. The purpose of this behavior - to exhaust those around that they could no longer resist and try to break free.
However, the potential victims have the opportunity to recognize is inadequate and escape before they will gain power.
Psychologists speak of five "code" phrases gazlayterov, hearing that, any normal person should be immediately and severely limit communication:
1. "You're crazy, you're not right in the head" and similar statements. Sociopath I realized that it "saw through" and is trying to shift responsibility "with the blame on others." And while I think that you need help, gazlayter will continue to lie and manipulate.
2. "You're not sure of yourself, are jealous." As well as the... "Translation" phrase and get the sacred: "I like your doubts about their own attractiveness, personality and competence. Dare to speak out, and I will show you in place. Will be afraid of losing me, etc. "Run from this" aura of seductiveness ", otherwise you will never get out of the love triangles or harems, established partner.
3. "You're too sensitive and react too badly." Translation: "The fact that I unfeeling and callous. Spit on your emotions, if it is not profitable to me. " Continue to get to react in response to the humiliation and insults. Sensitive or not - does not matter when it comes to psychological or even physical violence! Just go away, because the rose will not take responsibility for their own actions.
4. "It's just a joke. You just no sense of humor. " Best humor! But if you translate, you get not funny, "I half-close inflicted violence me jokes. Called names, humiliated, and then declare that it is not enough for you to evaluate the perverse humor wit. " Oh them - such assessments! Such communication from playful teasing distinguishes malice! Pleasure receives only one member of the "entertainment". So let him continue having fun alone.
5. "Forget it, we passed. Why talk about this again? " Translation: "I will not give you time to think about the incident. You just forget it and let go of the situation. And I will continue the same "Makarov". Zamorochitsya head declarations of love, making us think that everything will be different. " This tactic of manipulation is well known as "intermittent reinforcement." First, terrorizing, and communicate the next day as if nothing had happened. This loop will be infinite if not remember everything and do not interrupt the vicious circle.
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