Every mother wants to raise a successful and self-sufficient man. But how to learn to fully trust the children to listen and to hear them at the same time as their attitude to help the crumbs to become an independent person?
Answers to these and many other questions can be found in the pages of excellent books for moms Anna Bykova "Big Book" lazy mother. " Interestingly, the majority of parents, revealing a pair of first pages of the work, once they see in the examples that demonstrate how not to do, their behavior. And at this stage of elaboration of the work the main thing - just do not be upset and do not blame yourself for the fact that up to this point you have done wrong. Just you do differently and got its own unique experience. But if you still have enlisted the help of this book, it means simply xotitis try some a new method of educationhis child.
In this book every parent can learn interesting to him information and make your personal "cheat sheet" child-rearing, because absolutely all children are unique, and the approach to them, respectively, should be the same.
But the main points, as the "skeleton" of the basics of this method of education, according to the author, is suitable to all parents, without exception.
The child, like every adult has the right to freedom of expression, Therefore, parents should not impose their child any of its unrealized dreams and ideas, trying to plan for him by his future life, pointing out what he will do. Acceptance and awareness of the issue would "save" the fate of many children, especially the graduates, for whom the choice of future profession should depend only on themselves.
In order that the child has grown independent person as the dream of all parents, it is necessary to provide this very freedom, of course, within reasonable limits. Even at the tender age of crumbs should be given the right to choose by preference in food, beverages, clothing, toys, colors, what he plans to paint their pictures. And if the cat child wants to paint in blue, it is his right to choose, it is the preference he does at this point of time.
Every parent should be understood that with the advent of the child does not cost to put on the altar of his personal life and his interests. Education - is extremely important for children, but the children are happy only when their parents happy. By his own example, and you have to show your child that you too diverse lives with their interests and needs.
All parents, without exception, should be to listen to your child and hear it! This is one of the most important rules in the education of an individual person.
In addition to the basic psychological principles of education, which is shared by the author, it gives a lot more domestic nature tips, such as how to plant crumbs on the pot as put him to sleep, how to "fight" with the grandmothers, who are constantly interfere with the upbringing of your child, describe the consequences of this intervention. The author explains why it is so important for every child to perform all possible work at home and why it is, in principle, required physical labor. And such everyday issues, and most importantly - a simple answer to them is full most of the book, And many of the above it is decorated in a humorous images that accurately cause a smile on face.
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