Sometimes, a woman who lived for many years with an unworthy man, tired of the endless scandals battering and lack of money, decides to leave.
Once and for all.
Usually I try to keep it, but it would be absurd and not for long.
And, when the woman returned, a man given to impulse of feelings promises, does not hold back, and after a while begins anew, under the old scheme.
It can last for years and you will not even notice how to turn to the one who lives for the sake of the children or because they have nowhere to live or not a pull.
Many situations.
But we are those who still took this decision.
Left, alone or with children.
What to do next? How to survive?
You know, usually, after the departure of a man, a woman to lean a lot of problems. This is due to the fact that somehow the man on which the function was taking. And when you're gone, these duties you close to himself.
At that point, there is the urge - to return to become everything as before. Because it's hard, because not used to.
Old grievances overlap with new challenges. And it seems to you that everything was not so bad, and that, in principle - it is at least something helped.
Now, how hard. I'm alone.
I can tell you. It's hard to be moral about 2-6 months. A year later comes the humility and at the same time comes the feeling of liberation. But, time depends on where you went and what you have to do everything to get by.
Scheme should be chosen as the fact that you need. But some advice I would give everything.
1. Find a vent / hobby. It can be a sport. Embroidery, knitting, reading and so on.
2. Try to take yourself so that there is no suggestion to return
3. If you do not have enough male attention, sign up for a dating site.
4. Walk to the shops and trying on clothes. Pamper yourself with something. The path is not even significant.
5. Meet new people. Go to visit and various activities.
The list could go on endlessly. It helps any useful and useless work.
The main thing, my dear, do not give up and not to wonder: maybe I should not? If the left - so no wonder!
And if you still wonder?
Well, you remember why the left and remember, people do not change.
On your return man will wear a mask at the time, then remove it and it's all over.
Do you need these runs back and forth?
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