There are two troubles in Russia, feminine "men are not left" and the masculine "all women are materialistic."
We will not describe exactly these judgments, we will discuss the topic. Why, 30, 35, 40 years you are alone?
Let's start with the installation in the head. How do you see the men around? What men surround themselves? And what man would you like to see next to him?
Here you want to secure, wise, caring, who does not change, which he loves. But come across very different. And it would be all right once it became clear, so no, they were alone at first, and then bang, and we see the monster ...
How so?
And it turns out it is simple: You originally chose this, closing his eyes to his true identity. That is, of course, he also played a role, but any hypocrisy, and played a prominent and specific approach, it can be opened!
The first rule.
Let's start with the fact that when meeting with a potential suitor, you need to know about his family. And if, for example, does not communicate with their parents or with one of them - this is the first bell is not good. If the family are all more or less well and the guy does not give negative comments about it - this is a good sign.
The second rule.
Calibratable, not "breshet" Is he an hour? We give the guy a job, which he promised to fulfill. We wait. If everything performs in time and without any unforeseen circumstances - all is well.
The third rule.
Whether it pays for you? Or you pay in half? Can I invest? It is important to understand that everyone has different incomes and men are different. BUT! He is calling you in the restaurant - it pays. If you do not call and do not pay. Investigate the cause, if the cause - it is greed - it is another bell.
The fourth rule.
Hales whether once in bed? If right away slippery allusions to it, it does not mean that it is up to you happy. This means that you want to use "for so", these characters fully. You should not be carried out at them on occasion, then to not have been excruciatingly painful.
And further. If your story is - drunken dad, not respecting his mother, or the lack thereof as in life in general, the root of the problem there.
We unconsciously choose men who, one way or another, remind us of the relationship between the parents. These are the people that we have seen since childhood and who have shown us what is - love. Also has significance as they have loved, respected whether our desires are and whether they have to deal with.
So, if in a certain age you another. Choose the right men, without emotions, mind, but at the same time, do not turn off the heart. And work through their internal problems.
If you feel that you are unworthy, then so be it.
You will come across are not worthy.
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