1. You constantly have to push him to something, to motivate, to force, cunning, so that he was doing something.
On the one hand he listens to you and answers are always correct and logical, but nothing has changed, he lives as he likes, and your claim he perceives as something significant and removal of the brain.
2. You really like his family, friends and environment. But your relatives think that you should not pair.
In fact, it's nice to feel cool, smart, kind, a great girl. But most likely, it is because the previous girls were worse than you, and your man of their choosing. The question is: why?
If your environment does not accept it, and believes that he is not the best option for you, then again, it is worth considering.
Over time, love will pass. Your close look at your chosen (unlike you) without the "rose-colored glasses."
3. He never fails to fulfill his promises.
You tried to do for your relationship if not all, much more than he did. But with his hand minimal effort. If you ask about something, he does it with reluctance, although the words are always ready and willing, but always had something goes wrong or does not work.
Here is one reason: Why would he do something? When you handle yourself well. Not just laying out on "full" on their part. But correcting the results of his action or inaction.
4. He does not pay for you. And not giving presents.
You're all waiting for, when he settled into a job when he got a new one. Or it will increase in the post, so he started to invest a little bit of material. But that moment never comes.
You live it with promises of good life, that is about all will be adjusted, and it is everything, everything you buy and make. Just have to wait.
You realize that you only hear promises? He is doing something? Or just say?
5. He does not want to take responsibility for you and your relationship. It rests on your shoulders.
He does not want to live together, he does not want to marry you. And when talking about children, he gradually changes the subject and says, yes, darling, sure, but not now.
He can not be trusted with something important, he can not even pick you up at work. Always at the same time sincerely apologize, but that nothing has changed.
Such irresponsibility and the desire to translate the human relationship to the next level you will tire. Therefore, think about whether to continue to pull it all?
Very often, the girls will take place in such a relationship, are placed on "full."
They think that if they are good enough, and the man to change or "tighten" them.
But, unfortunately, this is not happening.
A man gets used to what you are doing everything for him. And change anything, after a while, it becomes almost impossible.
I am not talking about relationships in which the man was initially stronger, but happened to unforeseen circumstances, and he needed support as he got to his feet.
If you see that he is trying and doing everything possible to establish all - is another matter.
And if you hear only promises, but action and there are no results - then it is worth considering. Do you need it? Whether you want a lifetime "pull" all by yourself? Listening to excuses and struggling with the consequences of a loved one action.
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