Many girls like to discuss the passion for her man with her friends. And right would it have been in the form of praise. Not. As a rule - a discussion and ridicule shortcomings of your relationship and what he is bad.
So, why can not a man to discuss with my friends?
1. This is a betrayal
When you discuss the person behind his back, exposing his not in the best light - is a betrayal! You live under the same roof, or just dating. Care, about each other, tell each other words of love.
And now, meeting with friends, you begin to pour your loved one with mud.
Do not do like this.
2. this hypocrisy
Think, what if your man is also discussing behind you? What if he tells you in his eyes the words of love, leaving behind the threshold begins to quietly hate you, and sitting in the bath with your friends tells you what a bad hostess, and that you did not know how to behave?
This is hypocrisy. It's disgusting and vile.
If you do not like something in the man - discuss it with him.
3. You wash dirty linen in public
Your relationship - it's your own business, and it concerns only the two of you. Any disputes and disagreements should be discussed by you and addressed you, but not others.
First of all, because these people, however close they may be, they do not know the whole situation and look at everything with just one hand.
Be able to negotiate with his second half, and not gossip about your personal relationships.
Perhaps after you have reprimanded you feel better. But, your relationship is definitely not good.
Girlfriends protect you, not seeing the situation as a whole, and most likely after these meetings, you will feel that your man is to blame and it will provoke a quarrel.
Therefore, try to talk less about your problems with male friends.
It is better to talk to him.
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