When the relationship is just beginning, people look at each other with loving eyes. It seems that next to you without flaws, is ideally suited to you.
But still there are things that can scare off a man in the beginning of the relationship. About them I write below.
1. commercialism
If we do not talk about what specifically you are in search of a person who will provide for you and it is ready for it, the chance to continue the relationship there. But if it is about the good relationship of trust, something before talking man that you should something should think.
What is your meeting and at what stage are the relations? Do you assess the real income of their partner, and claims. Indeed, it may be that the man and happy to help, but is not possible and it feels miserable, next to you, and I want to be a hero. It pushes and causes the desire to avoid shame, that is more with you meet.
This does not mean you have to lower the bar and live with those whose standard of living does not suit you. This means that you need to immediately assess the level of the partner and understand for yourself whether you can live like this. And do not ask the impossible from the person, make him feel worthless.
2. obtrusiveness
If on the first date, you cling to it as burdock and look into his mouth without looking up, congratulations! You typically obsessive girl who is irritating.
By nature, most men are very freedom-loving. For them, the crucial balance and personal space. If a woman starts choking attention, or rather: write every hour, call 5 times a day, to arrange a tantrum and be offended if she did not respond. Down the drain. From such a woman will move away and run, to breathe, to be alone.
Typically, this behavior is typical for non confident natures, they are trying to bind to a partner, dissolve in it and completely forget about myself.
Remember, a person who does not have their interests, not the interests of each. Do not try to drown out your inner loneliness another man. It looks pathetic and such women do not command respect.
The main rule is - be yourself and do not use another person to solve their problems. Whether they are physical or psychological.
If a person is in itself harmonious, it is a matter of respect and a desire to be with him.
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