You know, in the world there are people that do not even have to try to build a relationship. And whom exactly, I mean it, inquire now.
Of course, everyone knows that there are people who never started for the relationship, but do not know how they can be identified in order to protect themselves. I want to tell you about the signs of these same people are worth paying attention to. Remember, do not try to build a serious relationship with a man!
It happens that people quarrel. Sometimes minor spats and quarrels can not be called as a small misunderstanding, and without it anywhere. We are not mind readers, to guess how to behave and how not to. Sometimes we understand the partner as something wrong, twist the information, think up, etc.
It is all natural, and does not believe that by entering into a relationship with someone, you will find all in pink. This is 20 years of girls think that strong relationships - it is when people are living on the same wavelength, and do not argue all day coo like doves. And in fact, in a loving pair always have spats place disorders, and even quarrel.
After such quarrels occur reconciliation. And so at this time it is possible to identify whether a person should continue to build a relationship, or you have to cut all now.
At the time of the birth of relationships people cut off his head, and did not even take notice obvious signs that you should not live with a man at all. For example, in a bad mood a man pushed a woman. She did not notice it, because given a boost in love and your feelings. A few years later this same man would beat his wife in front of their children. Or, for example, a woman with friends pinned her man, as to his clothes, and he did not notice. A few years later it will be watered her husband absolutely dirt at all.
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If you immediately react to the beginning of the relationship properly, it is possible that in the future people will be able to regroup, to think about their behavior and words. But if you remain silent, then the relationship is clearly not lead to anything good.
And the most important feature of noticeable just after quarrels. As I said, a couple after a quarrel reconciliation occurs. Pass it all the same. Someone makes a move, offering to make peace, to talk, or apologizing for something. It does not matter how the man offers to make peace, it is important that he makes this move.
And how the other person responds, which offer to make peace? He responds in two ways - accepts or rejects. So, if you offered to talk to the partner and to make peace, and he agreed, it's just fine. If you are turned down, unhappy eyes, reproach or even ignore it is necessary to guard.
And here is something else. If you came to the man and offered to make peace, and he replied begins to ask you for forgiveness, he says that "crossed the line" that did not want to offend you, and so on, these relations have a future.
And if you offered to make peace, the man agreed and said that you have to be more restrained, does not bear any nonsense, and so, here we can just say that from that person should stay away.
Why is it so? When the partner pleads guilty, when he wants to make peace, not to punish you, to teach you how to use it need to communicate when he realizes that the relationship - this thing the two of you, then it's ripe for a relationship. And it may even not yet fully knows how to exist in a relationship, but he eventually this all learn!
But man, convinced that he would never blame quarrels and blaming you, clearly not ready for a relationship. He is not yet ripe! You can enjoy spending time together, relax and hang out, but it is not necessary to build a serious relationship with him!
Do not expect, you could not find something worthwhile with such a man!
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