The death of a loved one always comes suddenly. It's like pouring boiling water on the body - suddenly and painfully. This is when I want to scream, but no strength, I want to cry, but tears have all come out even at the funeral. They say that time heals. But no, just the pain subsides with time ...
When I was faced with the loss of a loved one, this is for me, as for everyone, it was a huge blow. Long preparations for the funeral, obzvanivanie all close, and in the evening I suddenly thought about how today my loved one, a dead person? We cut to the pain and despair, all of us in grief and sorrow, and what happens to him? That day, I first thought of Paradise, and began to reflect on how and what to us humans on earth to do to our dead loved ones are in heaven. What to do, that their souls are not in pain? And what's going on with the man on the 3rd... 9th... 40th day after death?
The Christian faith with great respect for the man's death. All the nuances, unfortunately, I did not recognize. Perhaps, yet for me it is a bit difficult, but I'll be sure to educate yourself in this regard. The most interesting information I received from my conversations with the priest in the church, told me that the same thing happens to the souls of our loved ones after 3, 9, and 40 days. It just wake. On the third day according to the Christian custom of burying a person and arrange a wake. On the 9th and 40th day of commemoration organized again. And where in this time of soul of the deceased? In Paradise? Or in Hell? Or maybe she was there with us, for the memorial table?
Thus, three periods, namely the 3rd, 9th and 40th day after death are very important for the soul of the deceased.
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The first three days
Man dies, the soul comes out of it. While we weep over the body of the deceased, his soul is far away flies, and becomes completely free. She's in two days could make real world travels can fly to their distant relatives, may be with us and to see what happens next, after the death of the body. The soul is watching everything that happens on Earth. Such a free flight ends on the third day, and the soul of God calls for Justice. And we bury the body ...
From the third to the ninth day
The body is buried, held a wake, and the next day on 9th soul is in Paradise. She was good, she forgets absolutely everything that it was in the world and even about us, its native people. The soul begins to study the lives of those who are in heaven after Justice. And the 9th day of a person's death, the soul goes to God for judgment.
We've all heard that "it is necessary to remember the dead on the 9th day", but exactly how to carry out these wakes not know. I recommend listening to the words of priests, who urged not to drink alcohol for the memorial table to pray for his soul. On the 9th day to talk about the deceased only good because God hears everything. To pray, by the way, also give the necessary prayers in church. On this day, do not arrange festivals, just calmly and quietly remember the man behind the memorial table ...
Until the fortieth day
After the 9th day of soul, accompanied by angels go to hell, to see what is happening there. During this period, the soul must repent for all the perfect man for life, and already on the 40th day, she comes back to God. On the 40th day of commemoration are held again, and in any case can not be in the day to talk about the dead bad, you need a lot to pray for the soul of the departed, because the 40th day God makes the final decision. God decides which is the soul in Paradise or in Hell. Ask God to a 40-day leave of the deceased in Paradise, pray without ceasing, remember loved only good words ...
Take care of yourself and your loved ones!
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