5 fashionable ways of raising a child, which will bring him harm

Methods and books education Today there are a great many. Many of those described in the literature for parents trends in the treatment of children do not have proven efficacy and approval of psychologists. Consider what parenting fashion models can actually cause harm to the child and traumatized.

Education without "no" and "no". Parents who adhere to this method of education, do not tell their children "no" and "can not" and replace them with positive attitudes.

It is understood that when a child is faced with the real world, he will hear those words often enough, no one will talk to him exclusively in a positive way. And because today's children and future adults must understand what the promise bears the word "no", what is "impossible" cases in which these words are spoken and how should behave when they are telling you. Understand and use the concepts of "no" and "no" is important for the safety of the child and to successfully socialize. For example, to respect other people's personal boundaries.

Exceptionally good nutrition. Such parents try to plant children on a healthy lifestyle from birth, so he did not eat sweet, flour, fat, fried, etc.

It is fashionable to choose for themselves and children products exclusively gluten-free or lactose, even if there is no allergy to a child.

But the particular vision of a particular parent, what constitutes proper nutrition, and that - no, the child may deprive the body of important substances - vitamins, minerals, fats. Also, the absolute denial of childhood sweets and other favorite treats children interferes with socialization,

After all, in any children's holiday, matinee, sweet tooth at the school the child will feel flawed, because it can not eat the same thing as his friends - parents forbid.

Breastfeeding up to 5-6 years. Breastfeeding is really helpful for the kids. And pediatricians recommend giving milk as long as possible. But some mothers understand this advice too literally - and breastfeed almost to the school.

Physiological needs in breast milk at that age anymore. But psychologists warn that breastfeeding up to 5-6 years - this deviation and psychological dependence, it is necessary to work out cho specialist.

Home education. You have decided to be progressive parent and raise their child in the best conditions, than can give some school there. In your memory is not a pleasant place where high school students smoke around the corner, and Trudovik fizruk forever with a hangover, and the teacher of mathematics can hit a ruler on hand for disobedience.

home schooling adherents claim that their children have time to pass the material much faster than done at school, and therefore have more free time which can be spent on mugs, socialization. But note that, firstly, at least one of the parents of this free time will not be perfect. You will need to constantly engage with the child the curriculum, then it additional employment. Work at the same time will not be possible. Not all parents have enough on it's patience and willingness, as a result of the child starts to lag behind rrogrammy. Secondly, some houmskulery after a couple of years of study at home still go to school. Parents or mentally exhausted to such training, or understand, the child learns not at home the material sufficiently. Read reviews not only enthusiastic supporters of learning at home, but also those who did not work with it.

Thirdly, socialization - is not only communication with peers before and after of a mug of modeling and sewing, but also a certain separation from the family. This is an important stage in the development of the child, which is possible under the conditions of the school and unattainable at home schooling.

Dialogue with the child as an adult. A strange kind of education, which, however, choose for themselves some even star parents. It consists in the fact that since the birth of the child to communicate with them strictly, as an adult, without unnecessary sentimentality and syusyukany. Baby toys laid least useful and educational. He also eats from an adult dishes and sits on an adult chair, while his peers are children's crockery and highchairs.

Damage from this method of education is obvious. Each child must pass a stage of childhood. Learn and develop through play, listen syusyukane parents and answer them to their babbling - it develops his speech. Use furniture and utensils that are suitable for his age and provide security. In general, the child has the right to childhood. And an adult, he still has time to spend without you.

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