Mankind has existed for thousands of years. It exists because every moment someone is born. But personally, I was not involved in this. Well, except when he was born. And I was pretty sure that the majority were born because it just happened.
There are children welcome, welcome, but there are just born. And now in front of me, in all its globality, the question of planning the birth. It arose like an iceberg out of the fog. Who do I want? Son or daughter? By scanning your thoughts, I realized that they were so insignificant in comparison with the same global nature of human existence, that I do not even sweat stood out. Indeed, in this process, we will have two, and only then will the third. This small, that today, at this moment, have filled the space around me. And this is the third attempt to put into action the plan of Mother Nature and take over the first two power in her arms. Newborns very hard to cling to life. I read and heard that they are stronger than we think. But I have to help him. Here it is - the second perspiration! I appear duties from which I will not cop out for a second.
This little creature will be waiting for me, as I once waited for my father, my father was waiting for my grandfather... And at this moment in my Memory whirlwind swept pictures of childhood, adolescence... Once upon a time in front of him sweep has its image... Clippers or dolls? I was not myself. It's important for me? As if yes, but honestly say - no. I dont know…
My subconscious signals: this issue has come to occupy a large portion of my thoughts. And I remembered the words of the protagonist of my grandmother's favorite film "Gone with the Wind": I'll think about it tomorrow. And a few minutes trying. Does not work. Thoughts fill a large part of me, pass before the eyes of the affectionate faces of parents with pictures toddlers. These moments incredible array. Balls, braids, bows... What kind of gods to ask to help me a little break from surging? You fill your mind to be distracted? It seemed to me, I can hear the rustle of his thoughts.
But not only mine. Feel like the thought of my wife is constantly breaking into the subconscious mind, intertwined with it, fly away, they come back again. As the two tapes - blue and pink. And amidst this chaos will soon hear the cry of the little man. He loudly declare his arrival in this new world for him. What about me? I'm ready for it. Probably not just ready, I am now looking forward to it. Just a couple of minutes ago, it all seemed an abstraction, but now I am sure that I am responsible for this little cry. Why me? Due to the fact that once was born a boy, and now I'm a man. Husband.
Funny sounds theme - planning the birth. Sounds right and interesting. That is, the person who decides, or the nature of the controls? Recently I watched scene: two little girls pushed a children's prams, which were dolls. Girls playing in the "mother". And the nonsense that plastic doll. Instincts girls are real! It is by nature, on a subconscious level. It seems that playing "voynushki" we boys on the same subconscious level, we protect these girls with their dolls from the mythical dangers. And we know that we must protect, and the girls sure have to babysit.
And now starting to talk about planning the birth. Nature is all that was required of her, laid on the prenatal level. It remains to include the mind and become aware of what's waiting for you ahead. A child born after a planned pregnancy is more desirable than having been born of passionate feelings? Not necessary. Consciously wise approach makes it possible to prepare for this is not so much psychologically as physiologically. And this is a huge advantage! We were taught that the previously planned path is easier to build the future. I agree. I will not deny that, and with the birth of a child, this algorithm is suitable. And if we give birth to a new little man, you do not have to wonder - to keep it or not. This child even before its conception is desirable. And the moment you learn that embrionchik there will be a turning point for you in life.
You peace of mind knowing that the medical examination carried out and medpodgotovka at the proper level, and under the supervision of a specialist. You have decided on the need to limit the admission of alcohol. You analyze the everyday menu, you will not dare to provoke the heat from a psychological standpoint. You are calm, balanced, and ready to face life began with dignity and fully armed. This is a very important life exam. You begin to realize that a computer with its social networks should not dramatically depart on the second plan, and further, giving way to walk in the fresh air, reading professional literature, recreation, stronger and more prolonged sleep.
The peculiarity of the waiting period the appearance of the baby in the family should not be accompanied by anxiety, sleep disturbance, appetite. After all, when there will be a pipsqueak, time to care for these restless and interesting lump will need an incredible amount! Family life, its traditions, an established routine - all to change. Friends, fishing and more will get a completely different shades. And his beloved wife should be given more attention. It is so important every moment and every change (physiological and psychological) is not only her body but also increase the family, which is waiting for the appearance of the baby. And about the parents should not forget. After grandparents as parents prepare for the appearance of grandchildren is not less responsibly than we parents.
And if this is not the first child? And can not the second? Children should get the most attention, and after appearing in their lives brother or sister. I know, I heard that it may be the moment of jealousy. It is unacceptable! Older children also need to be prepared for the emergence of the baby in the family. Especially pay attention to the difference in their ages. After all, this depends a lot on the psychological aspects. Sometimes, adults, friends, guests may sound ambiguous jokes. The child, by virtue of a very emotional perception of appearance in the house baby, words can adults take for "good faith" and in his child's mind may not always be positive thoughts. Parents should pay special attention to children's perceptions of the emergence of this troubled young man. After all, everyone wants to caress, care, warmth. Divide it equally between the children!
