- Age 1.5 to 2 years - "Mouse"
At this age, children become more active qualities such as observation and curiosity. They like to build different holobudy, hide in the "Nork", spend a lot of time in a tent.
Also in this age, children begin to take other people's things and hide them. And this is not because they want to steal something, like take it, many adults and children so showing their interest to the surrounding things and behave exactly like a mouse, so do nothing with them, and compare the age.
During this period, pipsqueak learn to defend their values, do not forget about it. It is important never to blame the kid in the presence of strangers. Should not be at this age to encourage your child to ask for forgiveness from others. During this period, the crumb will not do it consciously, but the negative emotions will experience exactly.
So we should not chastise and older children in the presence of children of this age, and so, the more the other way around - the junior to senior.
Try to admire every detail found your child. It does not matter whether it's some bug, pebble, leaf, etc.In this age period do not force your child to share their toys with other peers. For the baby it is difficult to understand why this should be done, because any of its thing - it is, as an extension of himself. Do not worry, he will always be greedy person - at the right time pipsqueak learn everything, but will do so consciously.
During the "mice" Try not to take an active participation in the quarrels between the children. Stay close, observe, help the crumbs with his presence and create a sense of security for him, hugging the right time. If your pipsqueak hurt someone else's baby, do not force him to apologize to their child and themselves do not ask for forgiveness, because children of this age any adult is a hazard. You should only apologize to his mother.
So it is not necessary at this time to tell the child phrases such as "you have to be smarter because ..." - do not compare your baby with the other children.
- From 2 to 4 years old - the age of "Tiger"
During this period, children begin to develop a dominant intelligence and almost any action a baby begins to repeat: "I myself."
Just at this period, it is necessary to teach the child to pick up their toys, provoking him to look for different ways to solve the issue through communication with their peers.
If, however, your child being bullied, help him live his feelings, name them, try speaking them, sympathize and talk about how you understand it. But in any case, do not say that the baby or crybaby whining like a girl. At this age, the child adapts to this world and he definitely need to learn how to live their negative emotions now that he also knew how to do it in more serious in adulthood situations.
- From 4 to 6 years old - the age of "Monkey".
The thing is that in this age of virtually every adult child is respected and all his deeds are regarded as correct. Therefore, their actions children do not consider it necessary to tell. But thanks to a fairy tale, you can have a complete picture of what is happening with your baby.
During this period, the kids become interested in the theme of death, as well as the question, where do babies come from. And the task of parents - to answer them truthfully as possible, so as a child, in fact, may already know the answer and you just check.
Often it is this age can "show" career guidance kid laid by nature itself, so you should carefully observe what the child likes to do what he most enjoys.
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