The people there is a belief that those who are getting married in May, will be all my life to suffer. Are there reasons not to play a wedding in May, and why?
Of course, the most important thing in a marriage or marriage or in any time of the year was to celebrate a wedding, and whom you have chosen as their companions in life.
And yet in folk wisdom has its grain of truth. So why it is better not to appoint the wedding date in the last month of spring?
Folk omens. Folk omens say May weddings like this: "Good people do not get married in May," "Glad to get married, but May will not allow it." It is also believed that the one who gets married in May, will soon see the betrayal in his own house. Folk omens arose due to the wisdom and observation of our ancestors and were under a certain real ground.
Subconscious. Of course, you can brush off superstitions and say that this is all old wives' tale, and you do not believe in omens. Even so, in your subconscious mind can settle down a little worm of doubt that will whet your inside programming that your marriage at risk.
Wedding is one of the key turning points in a person's life, which depends on how emerge his fate. So whether or not originally programmed yourself up for failure?
Food for evil tongues. Even if you do not think about the fact that in May dysfunctional month for marriage. You will be reminded about it definitely. You get tired of explaining his decision to friends and relatives to make excuses. This topic will be raised in every conversation about your wedding. The most loyal will tell you that you are right to act as they do not believe in this nonsense, a superstition - you will simply discourage and tell horror stories.
Biological aspect. May - the month when everything is changing rapidly, and blossoms. Since abrupt changes involve some biological aspects - for instance, atmospheric pressure peaks or abrupt changes in air temperature. That is why the possible deterioration of health and mood swings, especially in women who are more weather-sensitive. Therefore, it is not the best time to get married.
The psychological aspect. Summer we take a long-awaited vacation time and holidays, freedom and travel. This is not the best time for any major initiatives and commitments. In the summer I do not want to be engaged in arrangement of everyday life and the search for compromises in dialogue. Is not it better to spend the summer on the possibilities of a carefree, and plan a wedding on his sunset - in August?
And yet, despite all these warnings - if you are sure you have met your person with whom you want to spend many more happy years and winters, and firmly decided to get married, do not lose it. I wish you happiness and love!
Also be sure to ask about a thread in any case should not be in the Wedding towels
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