He began to linger in the evening to leave for an unexpected trip, suddenly went to the gym, and yesterday all of a sudden for no reason gave you a bouquet of flowers? Best friend says that it is a sign of betrayal and advised to seek help from the private detective.
We say - do not panic! And do not rush to accuse her husband of infidelity, especially since he still is not recognized. It is better to take a closer look at the blagovernomu and perhaps you'll find an explanation of his strange behavior: maybe he was indeed a problem at work or have the desire to play sports.
Decreased sexual appetite. Her husband would not tight dinner if he had eaten somewhere outside the home. This phrase can be applied to sexual appetite. If you need a husband to have sex has fallen sharply, there are several explanations for this fact: he had problems with potency, has got a mistress, or you no longer attract him as a woman. The last point is a serious reason to begin to change something in the marital relationship, otherwise, if the mistress is still not, it may soon loom on the horizon.
The secrecy of correspondence. Of course, you can erase or encrypt SMS contacts, so do not expect to find an honest "Marina, the mistress' husband on the phone. Alert in the list of recent calls have such recordings as "Peter auto repair," especially if he calls him several times a day and repair the car in the near future is foreseen. Try to call a suspicious phone number with the husband and listen to whoever answers. It is also an alarm if the husband nervously reacts to calls, resets them responsible when you have a short phrase or chopped leaves to talk to another room.
To his wife and children. Dramatically changed the attitude towards you and the children. There are two possible extremes: either he feels guilty about and is trying to make amends for her gifts and uncharacteristically gentle behavior. Or wants to make you guilty of treason (do not understand, please, do not care). Then he pulled away from revealing family, will be closed and irritable. Both models of behavior should alert you.
APPEARANCE. He began to visit a nail salon, went to the gym and update your wardrobe, bought a new perfume, and became in the morning long before spinning mirror, carefully planning your appearance. There is a reasonable question: for whom is he trying so hard?
Relationships with friends and relatives. His social circle has changed: there are new friends, with whom he does not want to introduce you, but spends a lot of time with them. For example, suddenly I began to get involved in fishing or go to play billiards. But old friends, or even family-law complain that he was to give them a lot less attention.
FAMILY BUDGET. Her husband works in the same place, and the reasons for the reduction no revenue. But he is reluctant to give money for family needs, cut the budget and does not want to plan any major purchases. Of course, it is possible that he just started, for example, gambling, but perhaps the fact that he got a mistress, which requires investment.
OBVIOUS evidence. Murder will not hide, they say. And if the husband is cheating on you then, as if he did not hide the evidence, they are still there, if you look carefully: this maybe the smell of perfume, and traces of lipstick and unfamiliar objects in the passenger compartment of his car, and thousands more detail. And if you still believe in infidelity spouse expect a call. Most likely, your opponent does not wish to remain in the background and will have an effect. This will be the most reliable piece of evidence, after which you will have to make a decision to try to keep the family together, or put the wrong suitcase out the door.
