Marrying the perfect man, and then you realize that you have to live not only with sexy handsome, but with all his habits, quirks and "cockroaches" that you once had in emphasis have not seen. And how furious now, he does not wash for a cup of coffee? And these "snail" socks beside the bed, like an arrow in the heart... And he "ugukaet" instead normal answer... And I did not learn to close the door coupe have fallen cabinet and sew on buttons shirt ...
Well, the same furious! Infuriates! How, he wondered, to live with this type? Distracted, lazy, but... the favorite and in his own pathetic?
HABIT kills love?
Nothing like this! Healthy habits a family and love only keep afloat. And the most important habit that depends on whether or not although the family would survive up to the anniversary of "calico wedding" - this is the ability to see the positive.
And if this type without closing the cabinet and the spreading socks, you still roads and for some reason, need, then - it still has a lot of good.
Otherwise - when feelings vanished - no sense and tolerate his "freaks." But today we try to figure out how to deal with "blots" in a loved one who every day makes us awake Eyjafjallajökull (remember, this raging volcano in Iceland?).
Or maybe you're wrong?
Well, the truth is that her husband seems foolish transgression crime for which we would be devoured by the faithful. It happens? And you ask yourself, why this small heresy "tearing hamsters?" Surely the reason - in you. Yes Yes!
She sits, somewhere deep inside the sprouting roots. So they need to find the roots and root out to hell. For example, you have written a message loved, and he did not answer for a long time. Here's a parasite! Heartless bastard! I have everything to him, and he does not care about me...
And if you try to imagine how to respond to this accusation the man himself? And it turns out that it was really busy so that his head was once raised, and generally always provides you favors, buys favorite cinnamon rolls and even knows that you need pads with the "Three drops," and tulips - white and in a duet with a cool Brut.
Do not compete with his girlfriend in "unsatisfactory" LOVED
What do men - it's all they know, and women wash up bones loved competing in juggling Blessed disadvantages. "Here's my mug ..." "And my Crank ..." "And my something, my ..." And in this stream accusatory "panache" we somehow get used to thinking of the beloved in a negative way, and all the minor flaws of her husband or boyfriend suddenly seem too scale.
And if suddenly the favorite allow another trifling mistake, we hear in my head polyphony girlfriends: "We told you - by him no good will not wait!" What? How not to be considered "black sheep" and at the same time "not crumble donut" in the favorite?
When, during a jam session with her friends all "sing praises" the beloved comes to you, tell us that it does not put smiles at the end of SMSes and does not know the size of your breasts... BUT! - well-organized weekend and took you on a romantic picnic. So you kill two birds: do not leave "the club nagging husbands" and resist the chargeability husband in the category of "suitcase without a handle", which bear heavily, and pity to throw.
The drawbacks - BENEFITS
Let's household will master the psychological marketing - a useful thing! Transform are pros and cons to find how small flaws Blessed to convert in favor for myself. Learn!
He is indifferent to household items, furniture, wallpaper and the choice of accessories, and from the store as a counselor from any sense? Wonderful! So you can build your nest as yourself want.
Messy and leaves the computer dirty dishes? So, will not require you to sparkle cleanliness of the apartment and will not be checked cloth, how well you wiped the dust on the cabinet.
Silent? So, he knows the value of words and, most of all, deep in thought. He will not Frivolous balabolit, promising you a golden mountains, and go and solve the problem.
And this is only a small fraction of the shortcomings that we have - we just will forbid - "dig up" in the beloved. But why?
And do not forget that thoughts are material. Even if you do not voice, they swarm in the head and affect your life. Think positively about your favorite, as every coin has two sides. It depends which side you hang it.
