So the pope. The function of procreation is made - in the house there was a tiny, occasionally shouting, lump of happiness. Son or daughter. With the birth of the child, for men, dad, is incredibly important to understand and - most importantly, to take the a remarkable fact that the enlarged family, at least one more person and life will no longer be the same as before.
Let's define what is your role in caring for the child, the child's upbringing and development. How often do you spend a lot of time to his son or daughter? What is your interest in the life of the little man? Together, let us anticipate the stereotypes, can avoid annoying errors, to correct which may subsequently leave years of precious time - length of life, from birth to the moment, to be called "Here you are left / la of nest... ".
The first and most important thing to learn crazed with joy fathers: you take the same part in the care and upbringing, like my mother! The only physiological difference - you are unable to breast-feeding. All! On this distinction dad / mom starts and ends.
You can not replace a diaper or perepelenat child? Can not appease / lull on your strengths and at the same time such delicate male hands kid!? Do not read in conjunction with the beloved child of interesting children's book? You fail to acquaint the child with a maze, secret and mysterious places of the park in your neighborhood? Ask yourself these questions and answer them honestly. How many "no" you got? No one?
And I'm not talking about a joint fishing, economic worries, a wonderful opportunity time for crafts, be it clay, crayons, scraps of cloth, pieces of wood, pieces of iron, clay…. The list is almost endless. Use a beautiful gift that is so generously endowed you life - the possibility of direct involvement in your child's life!
Do not waste a minute of precious time, because every day that the exchange and non-refundable. Better not turn once again to the TV, put the paper down, reduce the number of social networking sites on the Web. And do not believe anyone that the prerogative of child care and education for mothers!
Usmehnites significantly in response to the one who will tell if the Pope functions are limited to the family's financial security. After all, you know something is wrong. You know that you can not worse (and often more) mother. You have already experienced these magic moments spent in caring for your child, you know the incredible tactile, emotional feelings. You already know the feeling of fatigue from children's worries, so indescribably sweet, bordering on euphoria from the excellent performance, favorite things of your life.
Usmehnites and to sympathize, whose role in the child's life was limited only to making money, the removal of the carriage into the street and few strict and tedious lecturing in matters of education. Because you have already learned a great mystery dad - a child or are ready to learn.
But first, still share with my mother for the care of your baby care.
• If a child is bottle-fed - cook and feed mixtures. Let's waters. Keep track of time feeding and temperature diet.
• Change diapers or diaper as needed.
• Play with your child. Talk to him. Believe me, he understands you. Sing, tell a poem. Give him grab your little finger, and catch up on it the growing children's hands.
• If necessary, put to bed, cradling in her arms. Let your child feel calm, confident power, feel the security and peace. This is very useful for its emerging nervous system.
• Take nighttime care. Before going to bed think through and prepare all that you may need during the night: food, water, changing a diaper, handkerchief or napkin, etc. After all, men are able to plan everything carefully. Everything should be on hand in the right quantity. Mom let her sleep once an hour, and in the morning you will be rewarded with a smile of admiration and a kiss of gratitude.
• Ifbaby breastfeeding, you pass it to my mother only at the time of feeding. Then again, your worries. Mother to feed and rest.
You are afraid to touch the child. Seriously? Do not hesitate! And believe me, you will be rewarded. The main thing - start!
And be sure to ask about how to correctly build relationships within the family
