Knowing how important it is to keep the feeling in the toes, a woman in many ways always tries to be the focus of a man, that he did not even think looking at the other. But sometimes replays - and harmless things start to annoy ...
A sense of humor and playfulness not only attract man and a woman together in the beginning of love, but then keep their relationship on our toes, igniting passion and increasing the level of trust. However, some of the jokes and provocations may cause the partner aggression or hurt, causing him to "shut down" shut out. Which methods can be referred to prohibited, and what is fraught with excessive love to such games?
1. The dosage Jealousy
The game of Othello and Desdemona like many couples, but some are so fond of, that do not see how it starts to poison the relationship.
If the husband spent a thoughtful look Woman in mini, small jealousy and touching shake eyelashes quickly return it to the attention of "in place". However, the use of this technique with or without lead to the fact that man is hiding something that can get him to make excuses. But the reverse scenario, when a woman is trying to flirt with others to support her husband's interest in itself, is even more dangerous. Simulated jealousy highlights the lack of unconditional acceptance of a loved one, depriving him of the status of the "best in the world."
2. funny incidents
Sometimes women, wanting to please the beloved, and to submit it to a real man, parties begin to talk about his "exploits". For example, he, having touched a beer with friends, came home in someone else's coat and went to sleep in the bathroom. However, the hero is not always enjoys such success...
Even a very funny stories you want to share, you first need to evaluate in terms of man's self-esteem and a sense of his own dignity before cheering friends. Think, if you set a drunkard husband, who can not control themselves, or slob who has everything goes wrong. It is not necessary to talk about personal things.
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3. cute nicknames
It's hard to find a woman who would have liked such treatment as "slonenochek" or "my skeletons," and even spoken publicly. But this does not prevent her from giving such nicknames husband.
She did not occur to him that the man does not come in delight when his wife affectionately calls him "puzatikom" or "Baldy". Despite the diminutive suffixes. Alone these words can still be appropriate (usually the spouses with experience), but they just are not meant for foreign ears. In order to express affection in front of others are more suitable for such neutral words like "sun", "cute", "expensive".
4. the audience game
Awareness of their power over the loved ones able to turn a woman's head. And sometimes she wants to show off to friends how he loves her, she asks a man with them to repeat what he said in the heat of passion or under the influence of emotions.
This technique clearly applies to banned since literally reveals the person in front of others by displaying his weaknesses and deepest feelings. Magic promises "change the world" or "love until the last breath" instantly trivialize gunpoint prying eyes. Even the circumstances in which this happens are often degrading. For example, a "humorous" accusations that her husband did not buy a fur coat, but "for the sake of it is ready for anything", undermine relations on primitive household level and force the man to continue to be more cautious, even in the most intimate moments.
5. Taking "on the weak"
The requirement to prove your love - not just banned, but extremely dangerous reception. Nonsense like "Poor write my name on the top of a skyscraper?" May come to mind only the young ladies. A mature invent more "mundane" test "neighbor staring at me. You're a man - do something "encourage men to feats do not need antics, and praise, and for any detail: thanks for the coffee, washed dishes!. And if a man wants to do more for you.
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6. offense
On the women's ability to take offense at trifles go jokes, but do not become like their heroines. Specious insults designed to force the partner to yield to the dispute or to render a woman more attentions. Therefore, this game is always one-sided. Do not forget about such pitfalls as the development of a man immune to inflated lips and tragic silence. It may also happen that when you really would be a shame and you will want to discuss the situation, he only otmahnetsya habit.
7. deliberate rudeness
The closer the relationship, the less physical and psychological distance in communication.
When accessing the favorite may begin to slip such expressions as: "Well, you're a wimp! Give me show you how it's done "or" wiggle fins - we're late "dismissive tone going into the habit, prevent manifestations of genuine concern and affection!. Not to bring to the extreme, it is not necessary to abandon the domestic "filter" to avoid an excessive candor and cleaning communication from hurtful words.
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