Alfonso, men prefer to live off their women, they have always existed. But in modern society among the successful and wealthy women of hunters here their finances is growing. How to recognize a gigolo?
Meeting with Alfonso, girls can not in many cases to crack, and in courtship insidious seducer not notice his ulterior motives. Especially the situation is exacerbated if the lady genuinely falls in love with a new fan, which is very gallant and courteous.
But understand that life has brought you to a gigolo who are interested in a greater degree of your income and assets, you can from the very first meeting. The main thing is to look closely at it. The sooner you do, the better, yet the emotions and hormones are not eclipsed your sensible ideas and a cool head, you will be able to interrupt the communication with a new fan suspicious. While preserving not only their finances, but also nerves.
Where are gigolos
Argued that gigolos in childhood - it nedolyublennosti boys who have been deprived of care and attention. At the same time they have complexes and a firm conviction in the early stages of mental and emotional development of the form: "I do not have to." Becoming an adult immature egomaniac, a young man tries to meet their the need for others: often at the expense of his companions, but on the help of friends and acquaintances, he never He refuses. WhereinWomen should respect themselves and never to help men.
Myth!Online gigolos come across very rich woman. It is not true. The purpose of gigolo - trustful, kind and caring lady, ready to help at any moment. Even without a lot of capital, it can give dishonest young man last savings or even to take the credit. At the worst, and you can live in her apartment, and at its expense a certain time.
Sign number one: it does not pay the bills, and "forgets" about the debt
This is probably the most important feature of a gigolo and it is easiest to see through it. Dine in the restaurant or invite you to a meeting in a club or theater, punctually, he "accidentally" forgets wallet or bank card. Or credit card "suddenly blocked" him for unknown reasons. Yes, such a confusion can occur with every man, but a decent young man immediately return the money to you or if you refuse to accept it, will make a gift in excess of the paid expense. A true gigolo about such "trifles" do not even remember.
Symptom №2: he always admired you immensely
Yes, a man in love will be in awe of you, but if the feelings are sincere, he could not pronounce it will be constantly. Alphonse is his sweet words would envelop his chosen constantly, as if lulling your alertness. Especially expect his admiration for your thoughtfulness and kindness. And in the legs gigolos are usually women and fall. And then he begins to use it in their own, far from being good, intentions.
Symptom №3: among his bounty only promises
It is important to be able to distinguish a man from a greedy gigolo. If the first is to forget to buy you flowers or a gift, it is this will not talk and simply take for granted. But Alphonse eloquently, how would you like to spend your vacation together, as if he gave you the gold and diamonds, and would buy posh SUV and so on. But in fact, the promise so they remain. Although sometimes they come to life... but at your expense, unfortunately.
Symptom №4: an active interest in your finances
When meeting some men, wanting to know all about you, asked about real estate, car or salary levels. But apart from that, they also, and usually more so interested in your area of activity, family, children, and how you spend your time. Alphonse is only interested in one thing: that you have in the property, which the annual income, the level of salaries and bonuses. This interest mercantile fan cover is difficult, and it should alert you.
Symptom №5: PIN-code of your bank card, he remembers better than your birth date or acquaintance
In general, men on the date of joint events and birthdays of your loved ones memory is short, and it makes no sense to take offense. Arranged by men a little differently, and so here the events as important as their companions, do not give. And even more so they are not interested in your PIN code by credit card or password client-bank. But if before you gigolo, active interest in these very sensitive data, it is an occasion to reflect on his honesty.
You will also be useful to know,for some men can not marry.
