Introducing the Internet can result in not only the loss of a decent amount of money, but also self-esteem. Unfortunately, these cases today are not small, and women should know how to protect themselves from the traps spaced professional Lovelace and Kazan. So, the editors Gingerbread site shares the secrets of how to recognize marriage scams
HISTORY Lovelace
For reference: marriage swindler - a profession with a long history. Remember Ostap Bender or languid, handsome 27-year-old Alexander Zubkov, who seduced a 61-year-old Dowager Princess Victoria, the sister of the Kaiser of Germany Wilhelm II. Craftsman Zubkov married Princess in two weeks after they met, and after a couple of months, has dispelled by Wind 12.5 million gold marks wife, who had to declare bankruptcy and sell its property.
You are my ONE
Today these stories, alas, no less. Female psychology does not change - only the technology changed. To help current feykovye suitors - social networking and dating sites. As a general rule, a serious scam used some reason Facebook for its vibrant activities. I'm sure many young ladies aged 30+ letters from foreigners with the flow of compliments and offer friendship.
Lonely girls and adults - is the target audience of "suitors" who understand that a woman is ticking biological alarm clock, so it is particularly vulnerable to the attention and trust that her friend shows the man.
THAT the bait?
Slavic woman is very compassionate and trusting. This we have cultural stereotypes and education. We are embarrassed to ask the forehead, even if at some point in the relationship seemed suspicious. And the intelligent woman, the harder it clarified, ask to ask to send data (eg passport photo) groom. Such a woman "puts" its decency to another person. A conman is studying carefully about me says "sacrifice" on his page on the network, and finds the "bait for her.
The bait scammers can "hang":
• compassion - say, a widower, was with child, and they "need a mommy";
• Sea of attention - compliments, color photographs and other heartwarming stories;
• the image of a rich admirer, a businessman who promises to "beloved" golden mountains, and even said that is preparing for the wedding;
• image of dad (usually in the status of the military), who will care for and protect.
How to recognize a marriage swindler
• Examine his page in the social network. Does he have a lot of friends, posts and photos. Suspicious if it is the profile of a Friend 5-10, and it is only women from different countries.
• Under the photo men costs too much likes from different women.
• Ask the other party to any specific questions everyday topics. If he did not give the answer, ask again.
• You should stretch to the first stage of the relationship, if unfamiliar people coincides with you at all - just read your mind, love the same books, hobby, music.
• sane person would not in the beginning of a relationship report itself too candid things. If reported, perhaps he is not quite adequate.
• If the "fiance" is behaving is not clear, for example, asks you not to call him after 7 pm or "runs" of the chat, when you call it, it is also an occasion guard.
• Suspecting something was wrong, try to get information about the person. Ask where he works, and call the organization.
• When asked about the money, even if the "bride" is planning to buy the rings and the honeymoon or tells how he suddenly He was forced to pay for a trip in advance, and he "pay" only a week later, unequivocally answer: means you not. A better inform its principle: money men you do not give.
