All couples are moments of crisis, when it seems that love has passed and nothing good is waiting ahead. And not always talking about obvious problems such as adultery, physical and psychological violence, quarrels. On what grounds can implicitly determine what your relationship is under threat?
On the part of your marriage may seem quite happy, but in reality relationship you burdened. On the crisis in the pair, and that it is time to do something, if you do not want to come to a standstill, say the following features.
Partner does not seem so appealing to you as before.Some time ago, you went crazy on his voice, and he seemed to you the most beautiful man in the world. Now you can not help compare with other favorite and the comparison is not in his favor.
You are persuading yourself that you have a good family. And look for rational reasons to be together, "won the others worse, and we have a common apartment, the children, and I have not 25".
You do not talk about. You bored to spend time together. If before you could talk hours on end, and now all the talk confined to household needs.
You have less to trust each other. Previously, he was aware of all of your affairs, and you knew all about it. Now you take the time to share with him what is happening in your life.
Are you annoyed by trifles. It annoys you as he eats, moves and dresses. His habits that until recently seemed to you quite pretty, you were led out of balance.
You are trying to minimize his involvement in your life. You become more convenient to go shopping and a nice to think that a vacation or a weekend you will spend without him.
He moved to the end of the priority list.If before the interests of the beloved, his comfort and well-being have been for you in the first place, and you are in a hurry to work as soon as possible home to cook him dinner, now it was not important.
You avoid talking about the common future.You hate to plan something together, and the thought of buying a joint property seems not too successful.
You provoke a quarrel.You carp at him, criticize the action and fun of in public. Then regret their behavior and feel guilty.
You do not want to decide anything. You understand that the relationship is not going smoothly, but do not want to make an effort to change something.
All these signs indicateso that hthen your relationship is going nowhere. In your power to change it, if you road your partner. Otherwise it is better to give up and allow for a happy personal life and myself and him. Wisdom and love you!
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