Why is it so happens that the happy newlyweds eventually turn into people who bitterly hate each other? What are the pitfalls of family relationships lead to divorce? Let's try to find the causes that destroy love and family
Of course, it is hardly necessary to articulate truths that family relationships - it's everyday work of two people who are equally responsible for what, how long their marriage. But that it can affect relationships and destroy them?
Inability to talk and negotiate.All problems can be solved, if sincerely and confidently talk about it. Gloss over the problem, try to solve it yourself often leads to further aggravation of the situation, lies and other negative. If that does not like something in the behavior of "half", if you need help in a difficult situation, it is better to say so, to sound that causes discomfort and work together to find a way out.
Selfishness and lack of respect for the partner.Before marriage, each living their own interests, after marriage in the same area we have two personalities to get along, sometimes very different, with completely opposite interests and tastes, with its individual characteristics, temperament, daily routine, and so on. d. For example, one likes to listen to loud music, the other can not stand the noise. It is not necessary to be angry and to adjust the other person for themselves. Be able to negotiate and find compromises.
The fight for the crown. Very often, the couple are trying to gain a foothold in the family pedestal, trying to show who's boss in the family. It is a powerful occasion for the constant bickering, insults and aggression. Family - is not fighting ring where everyone has to show their strength, and not wild jungle, where you have to constantly defend their place under the sun. Family - this is the place where you want to go back and recharge your positive energy, where a partnership on equal terms - the best family building a strategy.
Constant complaints and criticism.Support and faith in man gives him wings and the strength to live, to create, to go forward, to evolve. A constant comments, criticism, insults lower self-esteem, cause suffering, cause complexes. Constant conflicts, quarrels, claims to each other - a direct path to the destruction of all, the very strong relationship. Unhealthy atmosphere in the home, sooner or later will result in the desire to find solace and understanding on the side.
Jealousy and restriction of freedom.Jealousy in small doses strengthens the relationship and gives them an easy charm. But jealousy,which comes to a universal scale, just unacceptable, it becomes addiction and disease, which affects the two. Constant suspicion jealousy, checking social networks and phone, destructive and emotionally exhausting. It is important that relationships built on trust and respect for each other. Jealousy and suspicion are able to very quickly destroy love.
Be wise, patient and attentive to each other, it allows you to keep the love of many, many years.
Be sure to ask about 10 is a sure sign that love has passed.
