Admit it, that, too, so sometimes you have when you see on the street or in a cafe "Prince Charming", and next to it a "gray mouse", you wonder what he sees in her? After all, how many beautiful, intelligent, business can not find happiness, but here... As they say: "Do not be born, beautiful, and born happy", and even "water beauty not to get drunk." So, there are some qualities that are in a relationship is more important than appearance.
So what qualities a man wants to see in a woman to be willing to engage with it a serious relationship.
Listening skills. It is no secret that women love to talk, especially about themselves. But listening with interest and hear the other party, not to interrupt, to ask questions on the topic, not to be distracted - so the ability to hold the unit and it is really worth it. If you do not possess this skill, it can be developed. Try to concentrate on what the interlocutor says, not on my mind, genuinely interested in his words.
The ability to be spontaneous.
Men always remain children, monotony and routine oppresses them. This does not mean that life should be every day like a carnival in Rio. But offer a weekday evening to dine in the cafe, to shoot with the shooting range, or sign up for salsa lessons, go weekends on the nature and find the unusually beautiful place you may well, even if the candy buketny long time period I ended. Suppose that in life will not always be all according to plan 'home and work', a little variety will make relationships brighter and more interesting.
Be self-sufficient. People who know how to do something better than anyone else - to embroider with beads, drive, dance or speak fluently in a foreign language - has always attracted attention. Men are much more interesting to a woman, which has its own interests and it is always something to do in his absence, which does not attempt to dissolve in his life, denying his right to a hobby. Whose eyes burn and she excitedly tells about their hobbies.
Do not complain about life. Always much nicer to communicate with people who are satisfied with themselves and their lives, and not all the time whine as they were not lucky. See, for example, in two women with a figure far from ideal: a cheerful and contented always seem much more attractive than the one that believes that all her troubles due to excess kilogram. So stop compare ourselves to others, we find that in your life is good, and be grateful for it, but do not worry because of what you do not.
The ability not to go to extremes. Fine, if you, for example, lead a healthy lifestyle and practice good nutrition. But now make a wry face, every time your boyfriend buys chips, snatching his sausage sandwich with cries of "what are you? It's poison ", or require, when he invited you to dinner at the pizzeria, so you make a pizza without the test, it is completely optional.
The ability to compromise. Build a relationship, when one goes to meet another, and the other standing still, it is not real. For example, you stayed all day in the office, and your young person active work, he comes in the evening tired and you want to walk. Put yourself in his place, and lost, and next time let it do it.
Be careful.Relations on the principle: "you and me" have little chance to last long. If the one you love, you tenderly treat him do little surprises for him just for no reason, truly listen when he needs it and make sure, if he was ill. And soon you will notice that it does the same thing.
Have a sense of humor.The ability to laugh, including on himself or on life's challenges - a very important quality for a relationship. From the man who smiles and jokes, always talk much nicer. Just do not forget that sense of humor is different and depends on education, environment and so on. D., And what you find funny, the other may not seem like such. Therefore (as in all), here you need to know when to stop.
Be strong.This does not mean that you should be able to cut the wood and hammer nails, and for any reason to say: "I myself," Man is happy to help you solve the problem and get out of a difficult situation, if... it does not become the norm. No one wants to live with the gruel, which is all the time to shift their problems on someone else's shoulders, not to mention the fact, to substitute his shoulder in a difficult moment.
Be yourself. All of us, especially in the beginning of the relationship, want to show their best side. And this is perfectly normal. But now I try to pretend to be someone else, not worth it. For example, you like a quiet beach holiday, but in order to please a man, extreme telling how you want to backpack. After a while, though open and it may be that he is not loved you, and you have created an image to which you, the real, has nothing to do. Do not hide their real feelings, desires or impulses, then much more likely to meet someone who needs it is you, and not "mask" that you put on.
