According to the classics of the genre, it is we, the women, "headache", which means "for sex today do not offer." It is believed that our average man wants sex by default and is ready for it, by definition, and therefore think about sex every 45 seconds. Why did a man from carnal pleasures, and refuses to hide from his usual "object of desire" at the computer, without leaving everything looks TV until the second half to fall asleep, or delayed until late at work, and when he returned, revealing flops into bed and immediately "in the arms of Morpheus'?
Editorial Kolobok.ua I found 7 main reasons why a man shirk conjugal duties.
1. The wife has changed a lot, especially externally. As it turns out? Married to an active outgoing Laughs, and after a while you live near heavy to lift and Gossip Girl fan of the TV show, which recovered from a wedding era kilograms 20. Or former clever and careerist became boring housewife. So, next to a man after some time it turns out the woman is quite different, radically different from the one in which he was in love and that longed for.
CURIOUS.It happens that the desire of a man can repel the specific scent of a woman - from gynecological problems, breast milk flavor to too ornate and heavy plume of perfume.
2. If the man is a successful and respected at work, home pressed wife (Especially in difficult, stressful time for the family - repair, relocation, etc.), sometimes simply by a desire to show his wife how she is intelligent and well versed in life compared to the half. What's happening? The wife begins to resemble a... authoritative mother, and my mother have sex is not engaged.
CURIOUS. Complete default woman pushes a man, as a stout lady of any age looks at the "40-something" plus reminds his mother views.
3. Woman too close to the man. What is it? When between a woman and a man lost distance (the wife shamelessly flaunts hygiene procedures, telling details visit gynecologist, arranges a home birth in the presence of impressionable spouse) friendship and credibility may be enhanced, but the sexual desire weakens.
4. The wife becomes more successful career. Again, the wife is more authoritative and strong as... Mom. See item 2.
5. The woman too fell into motherhood and fully focused on the child. Kid always and everywhere his wife in his arms, pipsqueak constantly sleeping in the marital bed, all the talk in the family are conducted only for the child. Husband feels superfluous and gradually moves away from his wife, even when it is time to restore sexual relations after the birth of an heir.
6. Hormonal the recession of sexual desire in men naturally occurs after 10 years of marriage. But do not worry: after a while it again increases, unless, of course, she does not cease to look after themselves and not It allows for the strategic mistakes in behavior, becoming a quarrelsome mother scolded for "two", "unsatisfactory" by the behavior or a hole in the pants.
7. Alas, the fact that the husband disappears desire can be attributed, and food "culprits". A huge number of "chemistry" in foods (now added to foods and hormones) detrimental effect on testosterone levels - the main hormone responsible for male desire.
P.S. We - the women are smart, so when the first signals we know how to calculate the "offending" a bed and harmony take the necessary measures to bring back in bed passionate and tender partner, until... he has not found a new object lust.
