Children grow and change, and the purpose of proper education - the time to translate these relations to a new level. blogger Catherine Cambra I compiled a list of symptoms that indicate that you have coped with its task and can be proud of older children.
They finally asked how you were doing. The relationship between parent and child for a long time remained a game with only one goal. We are focused on their wants and needs, and the kids are just happy that we can say about them. When they begin to take an interest in your hobbies, plans and goals in life, you can congratulate yourself. You are perceived as an independent person, friend and adviser, not as the final authority on all issues.
You are no longer running a walking ATM. Times pocket money went. Children live separately, furnish your home and is able to fill a refrigerator products without your help. And you will no longer put money on their mobile phone.
They have ceased to blame you for their failures.A sign of real maturity - understanding that you and only you are responsible for your own mental, emotional, and financial prosperity. Parents did everything they could, and so as they could in the circumstances, he proposed. Perhaps, in this case both sides have experienced mutual discomfort, and you are still resentfully remember how you were locked in a room with their homework, and waiting for an apology from the parents. It is not right. Adults who do manage their own lives.
They respect your lifestyle and you do not impose their view of the world. Condemnation and ridicule of the habits of the older generation - Teenager line: In doing this, the teenager tries to show that he, too, understands something in life. But the adult is aware that it is not entitled to educate parents. Even if they spend hours watching a talk show on TV or bend back on the beds when all the products you can buy at the store.
They create their own family traditions.If before all the holidays have passed solely on your script and in close family, but now the children (and grandchildren) can celebrate New Year's without you.
