According to statistics, 85% of unfaithful husbands do not want to leave the family and only 10% are married mistresses. Therefore, change is not always says that her husband is looking for someone else instead of his wife. Sometimes he tries to meet the needs that are not getting at home. Why husband becomes wrong?
We used to think that if a man changes, then it is not satisfied with the appearance of his wife or sex. But this is not always true. After all, clever, beautiful and sexually active women are not immune from the male hiking "on the left." So why husband cheating?
The need for acceptance, respect and admiration. At the beginning of the relationship's future wife in every way I admired her boyfriend. But after the wedding, with time my husband does not get a proper decision in the family. He begins to look for one that he will "applaud" and his adore. Then husband frequently selected lovers who are at a lower level social. For example, if he is a successful businessman, the affair will twist with the waitress.
The need for communication, emotional closeness and support. Although men do not need so much to be heard from time to time they need the support. Only when they come to this to his wife, then get preachy. Then they meet this need with another woman, often sharing with them the bed.
The need for touch. For women, there is nothing wrong to hug a friend or pat her on the shoulder. In a man's world it is not accepted. But men are not less in need of touch and embrace. Especially because there is a very tactile men who suffer without touching. If the wife does not give them, it will search for them on the side.
Material goods. There are men who do not mind to share a bed with a woman for a specific benefit. Moreover, it does not mean that they Alfonso. A rare man refuses to raise the possibility of the financial position or to jump on a new social stage.
The need for status. There are some categories of men, which have a woman on the side - it is an important part of its status. For example, very often it is observed in a very affluent people circles.
Not a family fortress and prison.When a woman meets a man, a man feels "light." Creating a family, he begins to feel as if in prison. In this case it will look for the ease in the relationship on the side.
Desire for novelty. Like any person, man boring life and family life. Then he begins to look bright impressions. Some men find them in a new hobby or work, while others - in the arms of a new woman.
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