Quality relationships - the careful work of two partners. When there are conflicts between the lovers often blamed each begins one another, removing part of responsibility with itself.
It is worth remembering that in most cases in a crisis to blame for both. However, according to Tatyana Larina, highlight the part of female error is still possible.
1. "I myself", or the desire for leadership. A woman who does not trust her man, does not delegate tasks, trying to compete and prove their strength and success, begins to take over the duties of all men. It suppresses it. After that - complains of male weakness and that the welfare of the family rests on women's shoulders. To avoid this, do not take on all the family responsibilities.
2. Total control. This point is closely related to the previous one. Girls often say that a man is not able to deal with something on their own. They decide for it challenges, control every step. Of course, all this happens with good intentions. But then the woman begins to disrupt personal boundaries partner, fills its space, to specify how and what he should do, with whom to communicate and with whom - no.
3. Pity for the man. Sparing a man, you show your lack of confidence in it. So you lower the self-esteem of the elect. Do not forget that compassion and support - different things.4. The desire to remake partner. Each of us has his own "I", a big mistake to try to arrange a partner for themselves or to think that it is with you it will be different. Of course, each person can grow, learn and apply new skills and knowledge in practice. But it is necessary to be honest with yourself and answer the question, are you willing to accept the person for who he is.
Relationship - it's a constant work on himself. In order to become really close friends, should respect each other, trust, do not violate personal boundaries and interests.
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