Teachers - the same people, so nothing human is alien to them. And even offended by a student who, though reputed to be a rebel, immediately finds himself in the unenviable position and every day expecting the execution with the Director, the head teacher... Correct position of teacher's help forgiveness. But how to ask for it?
Editorial Kolobok.ua offers 5 working methods apology to the teacher. Let's find out how you can relieve tension in the relationship with the student teacher.
Why hurt the teacher?
Oh, this list could be almost endless. However, we will list the most "popular" reasons for which teachers are usually puzzled and offended:
• Students openly insulted the teacher obscene word;
• spoke about foreign intelligence or data teacher;
• openly corrected a mistake made by a teacher;
• tore lesson jokes, laughter or any other kind of "creative" performance;
• skipped teacher lesson;
• Do not greeted;
• lost an important book or teacher materials;
• has not shown itself is not open lesson;
• Do not show up for an important extra-curricular activities;
• refused to participate in cleaning the class;
• looked at the clock at the time of the lesson;
• indicative groaned when the teacher asked homework or said that will replace another teacher;
• spoke bad about the person the teacher is very appreciated;
• voiced the opinion that the object, which is the master, it is not important for the further training in high school and in life in general.
And this is only a small fraction of the reasons that become a stumbling block in communication with the student teacher and the reason for the scholar, rack their brains in thinking "now what do with all that?"
I'm scared
Realize that you have offended a teacher, to be exact - that the teacher offended at you - a heavy burden for any student. Even the most obstinate and hooligan. School - basically a very, very, very challenging pastime for a child with a chain of command, strict rules, the flow of information and endless tasks. And then there was an aggravating circumstance in the form of a frowning face of the teacher and the constant fear that you are hungry to win.
Who is to blame and what to do?
In truth, a real professional on his pupil will not be offended. Teacher, versed in child psychology and characteristics of the young "rodent" thinking granite Sciences, finds the correct demeanor to, First, do not put in a stupid world, and secondly, do not bully careless schoolboy, and take a step toward him, to talk tete-a-tete. Or to pretend that nothing happened, if the student nashalil due to the unbalanced nature of child.
BUT... in our schools is not all teachers have the strength, patience, and wisdom... not to bring to the conflict, or at least gracefully get out of the "tense" situation. Yes, yes, because the teacher is always right. Many educators punctually enter into open confrontation with the Trust, and the last or avoid the offended teacher, or suffer, not knowing how to apologize to him.
Who will come to the rescue?
It happens that in the process includes the class teacher (he can learn about the conflict from the other students and hear about the "state of emergency" in the teachers) and "resolves" the conflict in the home and personal charm.
Can not escape the parents, if the conflict is fairly "sharper", and they will choose the option apology to the offended teacher, if they believe their child guilty and obliged to apologize. And here comes the fun part ...
5 Ways to apologize to the teacher
Each option is dependent on the teacher's personality, and it is important to have parents keep their finger on the pulse of events and know what is happening not only in the diary, but also in the soul of the young student. Fortunately, today the mass of channels through which the mother can learn about the conflict in the day of his appearance, and she would not have to elicit the "secret" of his son or daughter. It is better to focus on the what type of apology prefer.
adequate teacher
Such a teacher is likely to immediately forgive and rebel, and tape made the day look as if nothing had happened. And estimates "offender" is not affected. A wise teacher even joke about that, and separately tell the offending words of support and reasonable farewell that will help no longer get trapped.
Of course, adequate teacher will be happy to usual "I'm sorry" from the ward, because it means that the student is something in this life has already understood. Moreover, the wise teacher will excuse even on the phone.
hysteric
Common case in our schools when the blast teacher responds to the very rapidly and is close to the heart of why students are often at the "penalty box". As a rule, these teachers feel that they are not recognized until the end, love to command, control, feel their power over students and their parents.
The weight will give a pupil apology mother's presence and bouquet of flowers (alternatively, candy or small souvenir).
Conservative
This teacher would be offended here to stay, and to delay the conflict is not worth it. No no! Conservative is no small matter, and if the offense can despised child of reasons: "I will teach you a lesson and teach the rules of life." Prank child a teacher perceives as a violation of a clear picture of the worlds, and an insult to his address. Such a teacher is seriously preparing for lessons and takes its mission very seriously.
If schoolboy mischief in class touchy "Iron Lady", should appear before her clear eyes, and ask for forgiveness, sure in the knowledge that he had done.
The teacher of the old school
Teachers of pre-retirement and retirement age are different: many of them are in the category of wise, otherwise always in my heart 25, some - 115... And the last category is particularly difficult and active risible students.
I must say that for such mastodons children are treated with respect, and if you still managed to offend, it is best to come with an apology before the lesson or after it, the presence of the parents and the bouquet will not superfluous. The text of the apology should be the introduction of respect for the teacher and sincere regret for wrongdoing.
Big child
A rare type of teacher - very creative, a bit scattered, glowing, bright (remember the English teacher Juliet from the film "When I become a giant?"). Their love for the students ease and freedom they allow in their classes, but they can not always calculate the "magnitude", why offend dear teacher. He can cry in the classroom ...
And gladly accept an apology - no parents, flowers and other surprises - but be sure to personally apologize face-to-face. He must also embrace the offender!
