Of course, when the world is changing, we are changing with it. For example, for our parents, grandparents and the word "teacher" and all what he said any discussion, let alone criticism, or not subject to censure. This was at a time even to think it was impossible, not what to use, I'm sorry, in practice. The teacher listened to, and not to rebuke. And before that there were times when the teacher was allowed to punish students for their understanding, and he could easily walk on the backs of "negligent blockheads" rods. And while no one dared utter a word not.
But, as I have already noticed, times are changing. In today's schools, along with the fact that a teacher can afford to openly offend students increasingly can be seen now, when children do not climb his words and snarls back. Here the situation is twofold: on the one hand, today's teachers are so driven into the scope of the total lack of money, they automatically generated anger not only on students, in which they are obliged to invest for pennies fundamental knowledge, but also for the whole world.
I heard once the conversation the former (now adult) student and her teacher. A pupil asks: "And who was harder to teach us and today's children?" A teacher scared me, "today's children more difficult to teach. They have short-term memory. Due to the fact that an always smart phone with Internet access, a child can absolutely not strain and do not remember neither the multiplication table, nor any dates. "
And from this state of affairs for our future generation becomes really get scared. I had in my life situation. I came as a student, to practice in the school, from which she graduated herself. I came to the teacher that I did not so long ago taught. Children, the eighth grade, must pass some final lesson, quiz. Causes the teacher to the blackboard boy (as I understood then tear off and Losers). Boy safely out to the board, the question posed is not responding, not only - it adds to its clumsy response to jokes (Whole class, of course, lol) and well-deserved deuce calm and relaxed back to a place somewhere in the "gallery". Seated, "genius" gets smart and starts sending messages to everyone in the class, apparently, some comic content, because every child after reading the message of the just comes from laughter. In short, there is a real disruption of the educational process. I openly stare at him with indignation. Pupil turns and sees my expression and absolutely rude asks: "Che ?!" And he continues to indulge in your phone! As with children, you can be polite and peaceful conduct lessons ?!
Similar situations in today's schools - a great variety. And it has long been obvious to everyone that the conflict is increasingly maturing. And if the Internet and different newspapers and magazines are full of articles on how to behave in a boorish teachers, the situation of how students may offend the teacher no one wants to see and hear. They say that this is a problem of teachers (adults) and they are more experienced, will be able to do to understand this! But imagine the situation. Young teacher, only recently graduated from university. A lesson in the third grade. It causes the pupil, he says, is not true, it returns it back to the desk and puts the well-deserved praise. In response reacts phrase, in which teacher sends a known address. All this is heard! The situation in real life, it really was. Here's what to do in this situation?
Or again, the lesson of history. I came as a substitute in the tenth grade teacher elderly. One class of activists decided to make fun of a teacher. The teacher's chair was still old-fashioned when shifted from the frame. The boy put the seat on the edge, after greeting the teacher sat on a chair and fell so that their own to escape became impossible. Class went into laughter, but when it became clear that the teacher - a person with disabilities, instead of his legs prosthesis... Clearly, children have fallen into a stupor and tried to help, but the sediment, and the fact of "jokes" were remembered for a long time ...
In general, I believe that students must necessarily apologize to the teachers for all their "acts". Personally. If they have become so adult to do bad things, it is able to be grown through and plead guilty, repent truly. Teachers are people too! They, too, were children and naughty too! If a teacher is a normal person, he can understand. Yes, we have to "work out" a prank. It may be some additional classes for core subjects or physical exertion (wash board in the classroom, to rearrange the desks). But you will agree, this is a well-deserved punishment.
And in the situation of a third-grader, which I told above, there is the educational work should be carried out and the teacher and the parents. In this case, the child is still quite young to fully understand their own guilt. To do this, adults should indicate on his offense. And the boy, after educational work, must have the courage to ask for forgiveness from the offended teacher. The teacher must also continue to build the educational process so that children do not have time to think about the nonsense in the classroom and came to his office as a holiday.
Even I tell you the story of my life. At school I had a teacher in chemistry, Stella M.. Strict, horror!!! I demanded very much. But at the same time, we learned it ran like a parade! It was a sea of charm and very thin, sharp humor. She could so carefully put in place would-be disciple that he even did not think about the offense. In other words, it is not always the relationship between the teacher and the student must be encased in a frame of extreme rigor and lecturing tone. Well, when the teacher can smooth out, preferably with a sense of humor, a difficult situation, but in all cases, without fail, in communion pupil / teacher must be present mutual respect! Other way to resolve the conflict there.
